Julie904

I keep missing my Appointments I'm so Nervous thinking maybe I shouldn't do it I know I cant do it a alone just been reading so many forms on here I have low iron already I had a blood Transfusion last year I think I will get even more sick I'm Scared I might have a feeding tub or leak And not lose weight Or Lose to much or just look like the walking dead and not enjoy my Surgery Weight loss How do I get over this feeling will I regret for not haveing surgery or regret haveing it in my case I wana lose weight to feel good again and pretty but at what cost. has Anybody felt this way and have the surgery and everything went fine Or just the opposite?

Thanks y'all r right

And I did write the pros and cons the pros are limitless Like I would never have to take diet pill again and all those Crazy diets That never work long-term But the truth is with any diet if you don't follow through You Gain your weight bk But with this surgery even if I want to eat can't eat as much And I know you can stretch your pouch but I know if I go under the knife and all the pain that I went through don't think I would want to Stretch it. The cons would be me being sick And for everybody to tell me that Well you could've done it yourself but you thought that was easily way out But I know it's far from the easy way out

Thanks everyone For answering my questions But I know if I don't do the surgery now I probably won't do it in the future because I am self-pay

Before I gained weight I always have big boobs anyway so when I lost weight I got a reduction And a small Implants to pick them up Now I gain all my weight back and some Now I'm going to have wl surgery And my going to have saggy boobs is anyone had implants before the surgery what will happen

I haven't had my surgery yet but just yesterday me And my husband and our friends went on a Harley ride My girlfriend Had on a beautiful Harley Outfit sexy boots sexy jacket just looked beautiful I wasn't jealous I admired her and I was dressed like Man Only because nothing fits me I used to be a Extra-large so it wasn't that bad but my extra clothes didn't fit me no more and I felt I was to big For the bike Maybe it's all in my head but That's the way I felt so even though I was thinking maybe I shouldn't get the surgery after that bike ride I realize why wouldn't I I try to do it by myself for years and never Worked And we were at the beach enjoying a beautiful dinner and I realized I can never eat like this again so I guess you have to take the good with the bad I've been overweight half of my life yes you enjoy that food but then what I could never eat like a regular person I always eat more than what I am a post to eat So there's other things out there Than just food like wearing a sexy Harley outfit and going on a beautiful Harley ride I have to teach myself Eat to live not live to eat and I can't wait to enjoy the summer with my new body and I tell myself nothing is easy it's all hard work but I'm ready:)

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Well thank you for your response I hope you recover very Speedy recovery and on your way to living I can't wait

I'm sorry but can I ask How does your stomach feel does it feel different I asked this question because I'm debating between the sleeve Or the lapband And I have a low tolerance to pain

Wow I'm going Through the same thing But there's a twist instead of me feeling bad that I can do it by myself my family is mad at me Friends to them telling me eat lower calories you can do by ur self But really if I could do it by myself I Would have done it long time ago Mind you all my friends and family are Skinny The only people that Are Supportive is my two. Sisters that have the Lapland But there in Ohio I'm in Florida so I have my husbands family

What part Of Florida are you from I'm from Jacksonville Florida

That's Awesome can't wait for my sleeve

I don't know what to do i have two sisters that have a Lap band One of my sisters lost weight fast my other sister is losing the weight very very very slow!! So my sister that is losing the weight Slow Said that she wish she would've done the sleeve And so did my doctor suggest that I do the sleeve Only because he says I wouldn't have to come every 2 or 3 months To be poked And the doctor also says because I have 70 pounds to lose that it's easier with sleeve And faster but my older sister lost weight fast and lost over 70 pounds just don't know what to do but going to the doctor every 2or3 months to have it fixed or poked it could be aggravating Plus it's money to go every two or three months in case it slips for anything that goes wrong but I'm just scared to get my stomach actually cut I'm just scared I don't know The doctors ready for me to get the sleeve or the band whichever one i choose but But I have to get a hysterectomy First Has any of you had a hysterectomy before the surgery or should I do the surgery first and then Hysterectomy Sorry for all the questions I just don't know what to do.

Hey everybody I'm a newbie to this am in between getting a sleeve or a band I just don't know which one I really want what help you made your decision for the sleeve

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Thanks guys for all ur. Comments. I think I'm going with the sleeve and do my Hysterectomy first I just have to stop over thinking with the what Ifs!!!! And I know it's not all about being skinny it's about my health I know But the truth my health is not bad but if I Continue to have bad Choices in food it's not Gona be a happy ending I'm 37 I just wanted to be happy in my own body I lost wait b4 with diete pills lost all my weight and gaind it back and some I just want that feeling back to be happy in my own body but I don't wana die to get there. I hate cuz I don't have will Power to do it my self so when my sisters did it I said I m going try to Lose the weight myself. 1year later I'm sill at my Highest Weight 215 so I'm ready for a change but can't help but think what Ifs Guss I'm just crazy lol

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I get my sleeve February 22 I'm so excited That this year I will actually Wearing a Swimsuit Enjoying the summer again

I wasn't always big Before my first kid I was 125 After giving birth I weighed 199 And then I lost my weight went back down to 152 then I had Two more kids Then I I was stuck at 199 Then I got on dite pills lost 50 pounds right after that I had a tummy tuck and a breast lift I was very happy then 2years later I gained all my Weight back things were happening in my life that was very Stressful And I'm emotional eater this was over Seven years ago. Will I Decided to go to a Seminar about the lap band will I thought I wanted a lap band but the dr told me the Sleeve is better Only Because it was faster and u can Lose more weight with the Sleeve and faster Results I want to Lose 70 pounds but I'm so Scared I don't know why maybe I feel I won't wake up after Surgery but since I Found this site it helped me a lot but But I need a hysterectomy first and then I have to decide between the lap band or the Sleeve so whats better Which one is less harmful?