I had the surgery in december 2013. The only person I have told is my daughter. I was only off work 3 days... which I do not recommend.... therefore no one at work suspected. I have lost 52 pounds and I feel amazing. I just tell everyone I have increased my proteins.... cut out breads (my weakness).... and started walking. All of this is true. I think its all according to who u want to share it with. Wishing u much success.... best decision I ever made