Hello, rdaggett,
I'm 63, and tried every weight loss program and failed miserably at all of them.
My BMI is 42, and my PCP suggested Lap Band as an option.
You're still young. I wasted a lot of years YO-YO dieting, which is damn hard on the body. I have the same problems you have, minus the diabetes, add high cholesterol,
I am an emotional-stress eater, but realistically, I'm a recreational eater, too.
You've got to know your 'stress buttons' and get them under control.
Lap Band is not a 'Quick-fix' but it involves a lifetime lifestyle change.
I've decided that this procedure is a lifesaver for me.
I want to see my grandchildren grow up.
My best wishes and prayers are with you in your quest for success.