I understand what you are going thru. My husband and son are supper suportive. I have also told my co-workers. I have not told my family. My family is very non supportive. My mother had gastric bypass. She is still very large. Over 400 pounds. She is against all surgery. So I have made the choice not to say anything, She made the choice to eat the same and not to exercise. You can not worry about what they think. This is a very personal choice. As long as you have the support you need elsewhere. Best of luck to you.