I was upset with her as well. Her story is now embedded in my mind it haunts me. But I choose to learn from her failed journey knowing that this sleeve surgery is a tool and I must continue to eat clean and healthy and walk and workout to achieve my goals, or I can find myself in her place. She desperately needed months of behavioral therapy and dietician appts before having the surgery. Her husband as well. He is illiterate to eating healthy and the dos and donts of Weightloss surgery . He's helping kill her, and I think they're in denial.