My husband, mother and my bosses know about my surgery but I have kept it very quiet. I certainly am not ashamed of the surgery but I work with a bunch of doctors and nurses who, to be blunt, they act like high school girls and gossip incessantly LOL. My dad has some...shall we say, not-so-supportive opinions on WLS so I have omitted him from the "in crowd"
To me, this is a very personal decision and one that I have not undertaken lightly. I do not feel the need to justify, debate or argue my position and decision and trust me, there are those I work with who would feel it their duty to question and judge my decision. It makes it an interesting situation that I am having the surgery at the hospital I work at, but I have taken measures to make sure I am listed as a confidential patient to minimize "running into" some of my collaborating physicians.
By nature, I am a private person, I only today adjusted my ticker to list my weight, and I am actually more focused on the results than the surgery (well, maybe not totally focused on results with the surgery looming in the next 10 days LOL) itself
Bless everyone on these boards who has had, is contemplating or is planning on this life-changing adventure-you guys have helped keep me sane!