As I read this post I see everyone has differant reasons for hiding or sharing their LBS. I can relate, understand and agree with most of what everyone is saying.
I personally have not kept it a secret. My family, friends and close co-workers knew about it as the process started. Everyone knew I needed to drastically change my weight or face more health problems ( 5 hospital visits in the last 14 months). Everyone has been totally supportive thru out my journey. I'm selfish. I did this for me and my family. At this stage of my life I could care less about how others percieve my weight loss and how I did it.
I look at it like this; we really didn't worry what others thought as we became obese, why let their opinions affect how we become healthy.
One last comment. In the last month, 2 co-workers and a close friend have all had the LBS. I have another friend and another co-worker in the pre-op diet stage of having the LBS. Everyone of these people would ask questions about my experience with the Lap band. I was happy that I could answer some of their questions. I would like to believe that being open has helped them decide to follow thru with the LBS. My Doctors office and Nursing staff often joke that they are going to have to start paying me a finders fee for the referals.
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