*Misty*Raine*

Keep us totally in the loop! I am so excited for u!!

Glad to hear everyone is doing so well! You guys are doing amazing and have given a lot of us inspiration!

Thank you all for your words of encouragement!! You guys have been amazing to me and I can't tell you what that means to me. Looks like I might get to go home tomorrow! Or at least I'm hoping ... Lol .... I'm doing much better and finally holding my own without oxygen at 96%. When I got here I was on 4 liters of oxygen and still at 86%. They have given me tons of steroids, antibiotics, and fluids. I am feeling a lot better now. Ty all again for ur prayers and well wishes!

Ty for asking! The kiddos are adjusting really smoothly and seem happier. I for sure am a much calmer and much happier person as well. It's amazing how much nicer it is without all the tension, arguing, and being belittled. I just wish I had done it sooner!! As for me, I'm facing a bump in the road on my weight loss journey. I'm still waiting for surgery, and ended up in ICU with a copd exacerbation. Just another thing that will be gone after surgery. I'm so glad this part of my life will soon be a thing of the past. I'm thrilled that these medical problems will soon be done! How are u doing?

Ty all so much for ur kind words. Last night they moved me to ICU for closer observation. At 7 am, they came in and did a bronchoscopy and flushed my lungs with a saline and sucked it all back out to check for cells and whatever bacteria is making me so sick. (Yeah never doing that again!) that was pure torture! They gave me versaid, and fentinol an I was still too coherent. I was gagging and trying to cough the instrument out. Total nightmare! On the upside I might get to be moved to a regular floor soon. Praying for that! It won't be as noisey as the ICU and I might get to rest! Ugh! Sorry to rant and rave, just another stumble on my journey to a better me... Ya know!?

Just listen when she wants to discuss different aspects of the journey. It doesn't matter what she wants to talk about, just listening is worth it's weight in gold. Also, don't try to have every answer, but research it with her, try to be a part of her journey so she doesn't feel so alone! When she is losing weight, praise her accomplishments, even if it is only 1 lbs loss. We wanna know someone else notices. (Not just us and the scale!) tell her she is beautiful, and SHOW her!! Your already on a great start just asking how you can be there for her! She's a lucky lady and you can tell her we all said so!!! good luck on y'all's family journey!!! look forward to hearing more from you!

My dr said it best. Bariatric surgery used to be like ordering from a menu. How ever now it's more catered to ur personal health care needs. I personally didn't wanna band cause I have read that most people (not all) still ended up with the RNY. So I wanted to skip the middle man, cause if there's a complication, I will end up with it. So that said, take the advice of so many and really research and see what is more for u. I have been blessed to find the info here on this site that I wanted to know. Just rember what a very wise man once told me, there are sites like the mayo clinic, web md, and several other reputable sites with real honest info. You really need to spend an evening and read what each of those have to say, then base your decision, talk to your surgeon, and then you will go in educated and ready to make a decision with your dr. This "wise man" told me to do this and it was the best advice ever! I went in already knowing what I wanted and why. My dr and I discussed my health concerns, and what he wanted, and why. Turned out we were on the same page! Good luck with our life changing journey! We look forward to followin you!

Today still pre-op Hw total : 225 2nd weigh in : 220 Down 5lbs! Heck yeah! Can't wait for surgery!!!

Curiosity got the best of me! Yes im a crazy ole nosey bat! Well I laughed til I about peed myself at some of those stories!!! They made me glad to be NOT the only one some of these things have happened to;.......bwahahahahaah!!!

Im also going thru this. I have a BMI of 36, but also have many comorbidities. My insurance is known to deny for not having a high enough BMI. My dr told me that he was not able to tell me to "gain weight to make criteria" but that if I did, "it would help get me qualified" So that being said.... I had to gain like 10lbs.... but that is harder than one would think when u already have the losing weight mind set. Ugh!

I just want to thank everyone for their continued support. Friday was a VERY hard day. I was more relieved than anything! The kids are adjusting just fine and even seem to be happy with the separation. I have talked to the littlest one and she is the only one that didnt really understand what was going on. But in the end, she asked once when daddy was coming home. Once I explained that he wasnt going to be coming back, she appeared fine. She was the one that I was worried was going to have a hard time adjusting.... but seems fine. I really appreciate knowing that I can come here and there are tons of people here that will let me just unload. Thank you all for being the amazing people that you are!

I am so glad you are on it and making sure things are getting done! SHE IS BEAUTIFUL!!! What a lucky lady you are to have such a pretty girl. I totally get everything having to go to the surgeon. Bella was born with an atriel septic defect. And everytime the drs would run tests, it went to the cardio, then to the surgeon. She was scheduled 3 times for open heart surgery to close the "hole in her heart" but I kept putting it off because I seen several reports that said that this could potentially close on its own. The drs kept telling me that it wasnt going to close due to the size of the hole.... but sure enough it did! She went thru so much at such a young age! I just couldnt see doing another surgery if it could at all be avoided.... and we dodged it. LOL .... She is doing great now... But that can all change in the blink of an eye with her.. But for sure keep me posted on how she is and whats going on! Im always here to chat. and it IS nice to have another person to talk to thats been thru the special needs our delicate babes need.

Thank you so much for understanding. I love my kids and I just cant allow them to grow up in a home where there is no respect, love, or fidelity thinking that this is the normal. I want my kids to know the REAL meaning of loving someone and with that comes respect, and fidelity. I dont want them to think that it is just "ok" for a man to cheat, lie, and treat them like crap. There was no way I was going to accept any SOB treating my girls the way he was treating me. And if it wasnt ok for someone to treat them like that.... why was it ok for him to treat ME like that?! THAT was my ah hah moment!

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Just think guys, very soon ur scales are gonna move and ur gonna be elated u did all this! So happy for u all to begin ur journey!

Welcome aboard! I look forward to getting to know ya and following ur journey!!!

I'm so sorry for your loss! I know I can't take that away, but if I can be an ear, please let me know. Prayers for ur family!

Congrats!!! So happy for u, and will watch ur journey all the way!

I'm a LONG time past 21! Lmao.... I left my 20s many many moons ago! But have to laugh at the post! Lol

Exactly!!! Finally someone understands me! Ty so much for all ur kind words.. I really do appreciate you and value your support more than words can express!!! Ty so much!

Thank you all for all the support you give me! I love each of you and appreciate you more than u can ever imagine!!! You guys have no idea how nice it is to slip away from my crazy reality and have people there that justify and not judge me!!! Ty ALL so much!!

Ty so much!! I am really struggling with this and appreciate more than words can express!!

Ty for taking the time to support me! I need all I can get. Tomorrow is going to be really hard, but is a must for all of us. As a mom with 2special needs babes, please keep me posted on ur (not so little) little one! She will be in my thoughts and prayers as she goes thru a trying time with surgery. As will ur whole family! I know how hard, emotional, and trying a surgery like that is. My one child Harley, is 5 and had that surgery at 3 mos old. I understand what you are going thru and I'm here to support ur family as you go thru that!!! Please don't hesitate to talk to me about it. And if u need to talk on the phone, just call me. I can message you my number.

Ty so much for sharing with me! I'm going thru a lot of the same stuff, the cheating, not being good enuff , being a. Total failure, and with him the constant reminder of where I'm not good enuff. He tells me where I am insufficient. But ur right, I am strong. And I can and will do this!