I had to join this site, just to tell you congratulations. I understand so deeply it brought a tear to my eye.
I had to attend an advertising award ceremony once, which required a dress. I wore mine embarrassed, knowing I wasn't fooling anyone. It was like lipstick on a pig. At 250, I didnt blend in with the 110 ladies and their equally svelt dates.
My husband I went on a small trip alone together, so I shopped for some lengerie. Quickly I decided there was no point.
Its these moments that hurt so deeply. Its why I've decided to consider wls.