Hi Joe,
I too am thinking about the surgery...actually, I have a consultation with Dr. P on Wednesday....I can't wait.
Joe, I have been heavy all my life and it was especially hard as a teenager. Now at 46 I am so unhealthy due to the years and years of stress on my body due to my weight. If you are ready for a major change (not just your body, but in your head) then I say do a lot of research, make a decision and improve your quality of life NOW....
Good Luck, Joe....
Margo