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My father always say, "a secret is good between two people if one of them is dead".

"Between a rock and a stream the stream always wins. Not through strength, but through perseverance. "

Hear hear!! I totally agree. We all should remember the scale is just one of oyr measurement tools and shouldn't define success or failure.

You look horrible. If you'd lose 25 lbs you'd be better. Did that help? Seriously, I totally understand. I am 109 down from my all time high and have about 25 more to go too and experience the same thoughts. It is normal. Throw the pop tarts away. And don't do a Costanza (Seinfeld reference) and dig them outta the trash! Signed, Someone who understands the power of a pop tart. ((((Hugs))))

Yep I'm with soccermomma73. I only eat real butter but little amounts. Im the same way with other condiments too. I don't like all the processing that goes into making something taste like something else.

Thank you all for being so supportive. This is probably the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. My mom and I are so close, We've always teased that the umbilical cord never got cut. Watching a parent go through this is brutal. I wish she could have done something about her weight a long time ago and it is definitely is a reminder to me why I did this surgery. Unfortunately, her kidney's are failing and she is in severe congestive heart failure. She has about 60lbs of extra water on right now and only took 48 ounces off today. I am getting ready to drive down there because it doesn't look good; it is a 7 hour drive. I just feel sick right now with worry. The only positive I can take from all of this right now is I have not turned to food. I am not going to fall into old habits and sabotage myself because I am hurting. Food isn't the answer, I just have to keep telling myself that and let the feelings happen and deal with them directly. I appreciate all of the prayers and have been asking Jesus to keep her in the palm of his hand and comfort her and let His will be done. While I've never met any of you, I do truly appreciate your support and prayers - more than you'll ever know. I look forward to reading your success and sharing in your journey. For that, I want to thank you all - you've been good friends even if it is just virtual. Thank you. I am so sorry and got tears as I read this. One of the reasons I got RNY was because of my mom. Not just her weight but her lack of enjoying life and her mental health have both been an influence. Her weight ballooned along with mine but has not gone down. My dad still gives her things she should not have. We are still able to care for her at home but she is declining too fast. I can only hope to influence my parents diet with healthier options. God bless!

I'm having a rough weekend. My mom was put into a nursing home a week ago because my dad can't lift her. She is 325 lbs and 6' tall and he's only 150. She can't walk and her kidneys are not functioning well. I called to check on her yesterday and she was really weak and sounded loaded with water. Come to find out she is 45 lbs up from last week and it is all water. I just got off of the phone with her dr and he has catheterized her and increased her lasix. I live 7 hours away and am a nervous wreck. I am so glad I had this surgery. I vow I will never again be so big I wish she could have had it done because all of her health issues are weight related. Being fat sucks and hurts not just us but those around us. We all need to remember why we had this surgery and the gift we have been given. Please send up a prayer for my mom and our family. My parents have been married 54 years and my dad is having a rough time admitting he can't take care of her. I adore my mom and hope I am half the woman she is in spirit.

Adorable!!! He looks so happy. Love the dimples!!!

This made me happy for you. How wonderful; the sky's the limit!

Today I realized I have beautiful shoulders! My arms actually look really good and not like I went from a 2xl on top to a petite medium.

I'm in jax beach too!

My goals for February: Gym 5 days a week 3 days with full body weight lifting and 30 minutes cardio. 2 days 60 minutes cardio. 30 minutes of 'bonus' walking during my lunch hour at work.

Is that true about b12? My b12 levels are normal and I still dont have hunger.

Me too!! Isn't it wonderful?

Mmm I can't wait! Thank you!!

This article hit home. I relate to all except the abusive relationship. How does one get connected and take action?

What is the name of it?? I'm going to look this weekend.

I dump on those. Dannon light and fit for me. Unfortunately chobani makes me dump and it was my go to before surgery.

I was the same way post surgery. My taste buds are still different. I no longer crave or even like things sweet and I was a confirmed sweet a holic. I have not tested it but anytime I even smell baked goods it grosses me out. God willing this stays.

I have been looking at them. When u get it up and running let me know if u think its worth it?

Don't give up because of 8 lbs, put it into perspective. You need to mourn your niece and focus on family. The weight will come back off. For now just take it one day at a time, hon. You are in my prayers. Remember you are in it for the long haul. ((((Hugs)))))

Well you look fantastic, lots to be proud of. Having been a military brat I understand how hard it is to move all the time. What it does help with is being able to accept change. I love change and attribute it to that.

Happy birthday!!! I have friends up in rochester, Minnesota and they tease me about how I am with the cold in florida. When I travel up there for business I stay in the tunnels and avoid going outside in the winter. Lol

Hw 267 Sw 230 Lw 162 Cw 158 Yay my stall broke!! I'm so glad to be out of the 160s!

Hubby and I went out to our favorite mexican restaurant. We got one order of chicken fajitas and shared. I had about 3 ounces of chicken and vegetables and 1 teaspoon guacamole and hot sauce yum!!!