I had done alll the research, I made my appoinment at the surgeons office, had the money in the bank ready to self pay for the op, I was mentally an emotionally VERY ready for the operation.....
Then I felt like all my dreams came crashing down when the surgeon annouced that she no longer operated on people without private health insurance. She continued on by giving me examples of how things can sometimes go wrong and self pay patients can end up being up to their eye balls in debt at the end of the process. She said that she would hate to see me or anyone else end up in this position. She told me that, as there was no urgent pressing reason for me to get it done now, that I should go home and organise some private cover and come back in the months leading up to the end of my 12 month waiting period.
Boy did I cry and cry (and I dont cry very pretty). It was such a blow. She was lovely about it all and insisted that the 12 months will fly by.....
.... AND IT DID! I had the operation on the 26th October. It all went well and there were no complications thankfully. Looking back now at the waiting period - it was just another 12 months where I grew more determined than ever that this band was for me! I had no panic or fear before the operation - just excited about FINALLY starting the next phase of my life. The difference between you and me is that you have to make a decision - I had it made for me by the surgeon.
The icing on the cake was that I now have $9000 + in the bank there for me to go out and by all of those outifts that I will be needing. Good luck with your decision.