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If anyone can offer any advice, do I ask HR for the forms for FMLA? Or my manager for the form? Also if I have to inform HR..do I have my doctor film out form to return to HR? Thanks in advance for feedbacks.

I'm feeling so stressed out today. May have surgery sometime in March. Today I feel sad,stress, nervous,scared. Like I want to cry. I should be happy, but my nerves is getting the best of me. I'm thinking it may be because of the outcome of the surgery. Anyone else's emotions getting the best of them?

Soooooo nervous, my package was submitted on Friday for approval. Hope and pray they approve.

Congrats everyone! My package was submitted Friday. .hope to get approved. .afraid to get to excited just incase I don't. Just a little hard I have no one to share that news with except my hubby. .my mom & sister not to thrilled about wls..and the friends I do have are gossipy and JUDGEMENTAL!

Omg! You describe me situation to the `T'...I have all the what if's also..I have to young boys 8 & 11.. my hubby not to trill about wls. But he said he will be by my side all the way..mom & sisters were all for it. Even encouraged me to look into it..but since I got all into it and almost done..they turned against it..I can't even tell them I'm all done with my requirement. Cause I know they are not excited for me. I guess they have fears for me, so do I..it almost feels like i'm keeping a dirty secret about my surgery, since I didn't tell anyone. .I just pray to God, I have no complication and I will try my best not to complain to much around them. Even if I'm in pain..my package was submitted on Friday to insurance. .can't even call them to tell them..cause I know they are not happy. .very disharted!

I would think I would be a fast turn around time also, since the surgeon sent me to that psychologist. Since they probably work together. I call Nut today, she informed me the results should of been in already. She will have the insurance coordinator call them to find out if results was ready. That's the only thing remaining to submit to insurance for approval.. hope they send by tomorrow. And hopefully submit to my insurance by early next week. .hope insurance don't take 2-4wks to respond with an approval or denial..keeping fingers crossed.

I had my psy evaluation almost 2 wks ago. Still he had not sent in results. .maybe he finds me crazy...Lmao...how long did it take for psy to submit results to surgeon office? That's what holding up my surgeon office to submit my package to insurance for hopefully approve me..i'm getting nervous and stressing. .just want to be over this process already.

Good topic, because I have less than 100lbs to lose myself.

Thanks for the reply. .it's almost 2 wks and surgeon office keeps telling me they still haven't received yet..they are really pissing me off.

Your soooooo lucky, my was with a very serious not warm psychologist. .than I !the dreaded 526 computer test questions. It's also 2 wks..he still has not sent my results to the surgeon as of yet..how long did it take for your surgeon to receive psy evaluation results?

I have Humana insurance

That's what happened to a family friend. .her face really thinned out, but prior to her wls, she had a reallly chubby face. That's the main reason my mom & sister are against me. They said my face will get to skinny and I will look 10 yrs older.

Wow, that sounds scary..hope that is not the case. .please keep us posted.

I'm going through the same thing. .my mom & sister was all for it in the beginning. .but ever since I got serious about it..going through with all the insurance hoops. .now they telling me, why would I want to have wls..when I'm not guarantee that I will lose the weight and I would have to take vitamin for the rest of my life. Especially since a close family friend had VSG..and she looks older,unhealthy and obsessive about losing more weight and that she looks 10 yrs older. They said that's how I will become and my hubby may not love me anymore if I look that horrible. I feel so hurt..mind u my sister is dieting and losing weight. Every time I see her I complement her on her body..it realllly hurt, cause they see how long I have a weight issue. .happy my hubby is the only one that is supporting my decision.

Fantastic job..can't wait to get on the looser bench..keep up the good work. What was your starting weight? And how much have you losed?

Feeling the same way, can't wait til I'm approved (that's if I do get approved) had psy evaluation 2/10..that was the last hoop..now still haven't heard from doctor office. If they submitted yet to insurance or if I failed psy test...maybe he thinks I'm crazy...lol

Anyone from Ga, lets start a forum. .what's your location? HW, SW,CW..who is your doctor? ...239 lbs, 5'4..Gwinnett county..Dr Hart.

I'm feeling the same way also..I keep thinking I will not get approved. Especially since I have completed all my requirements..now all I'm waiting for is for doctor off to submit to insurance. They still haven't. I keep thinking, they did submit and I didn't get approved. Especially since my BMI is only 40.3..Keeping fingers crossed.

Same thing happened to me I started in October they told me it was 6 months. .2 wks ago Nut called me and told me insurance changed beginning of year now it's only 4 months. Completed all requirements now waiting for them to submit to insurance. Hopefully they send out this coming week. I want to get this done already. .I happy,scared,nervous, stressed out soooooo much. I keep thinking if this will work for me..is it normal to feel soooooo nervous. .Plus keeping wls private is hard. .no one to speak to about my feeling except hubby.

Having hiatel hernia repair during my surgery also. Sometime in march..done with my requirements. Waiting doe psychologist to send results to my surgeon. It's been about 1wk..don't know why it's taking soooooo long. Maybe, I didn't pass or he thinks I'm crazy. .lol..I just need him to send results and then they will submit to insurance. That's another wait time. God only knows how long insurance will take before they approve. My doctor won't give date. .wish they would at least give me a tentative date.

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Things everyone for the feed back. Also having hiatel hernia repair during surgery also. That's what I will tell the nosy nellys at work. I will find out if doctor can write elective surgery on my form also. Again thanks for the feed backs.

Same thing happened to me. This year my insurance change 6mnths requirement down to 4. Nut called me 2 wks ago to tell me the news. Was supposed to have surgery May/June now it may be early next month. So ready to get surgery behind me. Anyone else felt that way?

LOVE your attitude ! Not too nervous also. .just looking forward til summer when I can fit into cute summer outfits...vain? Oh well..looking forward to feeling good about the way I look.

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