Cerrin

Thanks and your right I need to up my protein and water. the heck with the rest of it lol

Thanks I knew comming back here would help me get motovated to do the right thing. I was just stuck in a rut. Hey! but atleast thanks to my friend the Band I havent gained any weight while in that rut. I just havent lost any.

Yeah But My Dr said I could drink it. Now I cant stop I am going to have to go cold turkey again. And tell my brain I CANNNOT have it.

Thanks both of you. I do need to get moving again. Working 2 full time jobs and going to school really limits my time for anything. But I need to cut out the sweets and soda. I think I am on a backward trend and it is not a good thing. My parents will be here in May and I wanted to be under 300 and I am not there yet. about 20 lbs left to lose. I think If I can get focused I should be good. I dont PB anymore I can stop myself before I get to that point. But I have a hard time realizing when I am full. Like right now I am burping non stop and I am still hungry. But I know If I eat more right now I will PB. But I am still hungry...but I dont know if it is head hunger or real hunger. I do know I am not as tight as I should be.

ok Here is my deal I dont know when I am full. I dont PB anymore. I have learned to stop before that. But I am always burping when eatting...How do I know when I am full. I wish I could find a successful bander in my area who would go to dinner with me and show me how they really eat. I need to see it to get it.

Ok I am having some serious problems...ok not super serious...But I am not losing. I am not gaining and that I am happy for, but I am not losing. I will admit I am not doing like I was doing but life gets in the way. I am thinking I am going to start all over with the pre surgery diet to get me back on track and cut out all carbonated beverages again. I dont know what else to do. I am eatting like crap and dont know how to stop myself.:tongue2:

Wow I love PMS. lol Not!

I for one have not had time to be on here...AND I am kinda discouraged my weight loss is so slow I am now into a 3X lol I actualy can shop IN a store and not buy on-line or thru a catalog...lol I know I need to start excercising again I just have such a busy school schedule it is difficult. But I am going to try. I really wanted to be under 300 by this time...but close but no cake lol

The reasons I think we are tighter during that TOM is from swelling. My body swells and bloats starting about a week before and that is when I notice the PBing and sliming. I figure my stomach swells and pushes on the tube from the port to the band making all the fluid go into the band and then the swelling arround the band makes it tighter too.

It was after I had some restriction that I noticed. But my fills came right about my TOM lol

Thanks, With school and everything I am finding it difficult to stay on track with exercise.

Well I did finally stop wearing the old baggy pants. lol I have moved on the smaller sizes in my closet. Nothing like the rest of you, buying new clothes. And I am going to have to buy a smaller swim suit... OH!!! I can feel my port now lol

Well, my current BF can go for about an hour. multiple positions. So asking for an average amount of time is not fair. if your satisfied then your satisfied.

Oh I have snapped many underwire bras...Let me tell you this BIG hint! Keep the receipt. No matter how old You can return them for a new bra if you prove the underwire broke. lol my Brother taught me this trick he returns everything. lol (not bras...lol)

I am confused I see my Dr on the 25th and I dont know If I should get a fill or an unfill. I dont always make the best food choices...which make me PB and slime. I know what is causeing it. So I think I should not get a fill untill I get it under control myself. But their are days I can eat like a pig and days I cant eat much at all. My fickle band.I am still losing...just super slow.

I havent been very active on this site lately but I am at 318 right now I started off about 376 i think For me I did my goals by years. in 2006 i was at 351 2005 340 2004 320 2003 295 I am hoping to be 5 years younger lol By November so I will be under 300lbs lol

Grr maybe it is because I am not to the 200 lb range yet...I am still in the 300's low 300's but still it kinda ticks me off

Wow everyone is doing so well I am moving so slowly geesh

use chocolate sauce and it is. lol

I have to agree with plain. You may of been friends with him for 15 years but he is acting like a jerk. and I do think he is making sure you stay focused on him. Cooking for him shopping for him all that is nice...but not something a friend does for a friend...ok that is wrong I do it for my friends...but not as much as your doing for him. I think he is totally taking advantage of you. I say find a real man and screw his brains out. and your friend will come to his senses or get over himself.

lol My periods used to be like 3 days super light...now they are like 5 days not as heavy as some of my friends...but heavier then I ever had been...and crappy spotting 2 days before. geesh this sucks.

lol Yeah. well the BJ thing as in the term...It is just one of those things. lol We could call it OG for oral gratification. lol I kinda like that term lol

I also think BJ are extremely important to sex. I love giving them. But I will stop giving them if my BF wont kiss me after. That pisses me off. If he goes down on me I am all for kissing him. So I dont know what the big deal is. lol But THANKFULY my current BF sees no problem with kissing me after as I love to kiss him after giving AND receiving oral. UMM I am going to have to give him a call to see what he is doing tonight lol

lol because your a guy and we women are talking frankly about sex and liking it. lol Never fails to make a guy horny. lol Or it could be because your reading that therir are women out their that like BJ's lol:thumbup:

Oral...BJ...Swallowing the juice of love...lol sorry I had to...lol too many romance novels lol So anyone have issues during TOM with swallowing?