Mkmb2006

So many of us have lost hundreds of pounds over our lifetimes, no? Speaking for myself, I know how to lose weight, I just can't keep it off because I either lose motivation or get lazy. After 40 years of being fat, I'm just done. I need something on my side that will enable me, not discourage me. I've thought about this for some 8 years. I'm ready, but of course I'm scared of medical complications and have some doubts, mostly around the fact that I don't always eat out of hunger; I eat because I love food, it tastes great, it's social or family celebration, etc. But, i know when I'm encouraged and motivated, my perspective changes and I get really enthusiastic about the changes. That's what I'm ready for - I want to feel good, strong, healthy, able. I'm glad I didn't do it 8 years ago because I just wasn't ready. It's my time now. Maybe it's yours too?

It's great you're at least asking the questions because this is probably one of the most important decisions you will ever make. I'm in the same stage as you and certainly have concerns, but I feel I've found an exceptional program and surgical staff, and that has helped put me at ease. My biggest concerns are also medical complications, but your MIL sounds like she either didn't receive adequate care or isn't following the "plan." I could be way off base (apologies if I am), but remember you are not her. Everyone's experience is personal...like DLCoggin said, vitamins and protein are the keys (beyond qualified medical staff). I'm already taking biotin because I'm also worried about losing my hair, but if it happens, Ive been told it's likely temporary (even though it would Still temporarily suck). There's a lot to consider, but I'm afraid to read any horror stories because I want to stay positive. I had my consult yesterday and going to my first group meeting tomorrow to learn more...it seems easy to talk about the change from a medical perspective, but info from who I hope will be new friends, is going to be priceless. The one piece of advice I'll offer is be sure you want to do this before you make a decision. I started thinking about it some 8 years ago and I just wasnt ready then. Now I can't wait...and am even giving up my coveted coffee. I know it won't be easy, but I'm ready to make my life better...and maybe it's partly a leap of faith, but I'm going to believe it will be better.

Good luck tomorrow! Let us know how it goes! Keep the Faith!