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glad it all worked out. Start drinking! --Lisa

One of your incisions might be infected--make sure to mention it to you doctor ; I know I had one incision inside my belly button--the one that took the longest to heal. I think you said you are seeing your doctor today? --I think mentally you'll feel alot better after he can diagnose what's causing your symptoms and within a few days of following his instructions, you'll feel back to your normal self. The first 3-4 weeks are really overwhelming--both physically and emotionally but I promise this journey will be amazing. keep us updated --Lisa

Call your doctor. You should be still a little uncomfortable still but not in pain. Most important, you shouldn't be dizzy--this is probably from dehydration or your blood pressure. You definitely shouldn't be driving if you are dizzy. I had extremely low blood pressure after my surgery and had to postpone my return to work. I went back to work at 3 weeks once my blood pressure was better. I still felt a little weak at that point but able to commute to work and do my desk job. hope you are feeling better soon!--Lisa

Congratulations!--it's the start of a new life. Not sure what advice I can give except listen to your doctor and work their program. Also, keep coming back here or to a support group---it's important to have support from people who have been there. If you do that, you'll be successful. Best of luck tomorrow--I'm sure all will go well--make sure to keep us updated on your progress through out the months/years to come--Lisa

Hi Joymarie---I think you're fine. They should only use the 3 month program results that you are currently in. Sounds like you'll have surgery soon--how exciting--best of luck on your journey!--Lisa

I guarantee its not as noticeable to others as it is to you. Mine came back and It's full and as healthy as it was before. You'll be able to wear it as long as you want!--Lisa

I totally get your fear--I'm there with you. I was sleeved in November 2013 and hit my lowest in 10/2014. I had my gallbladder out and then the holidays hit--I did put on about 3-4 lbs and rightfully so but in the last month, I have reduced my calories, cut out all sweets and I lose 2 lbs and then gain 2 lbs-it's so frustrating. I don't mean to hijack your thread just hoping someone out there has some words of wisdom for you (and for me). --Lisa

Congratulations--what great news! good luck on your journey and keep us updated!--Lisa

I didn't have this concern since my BMI was much higher when I started but I've heard on this board that insurance companies use your starting BMI. You should check with your insurance on how what co-morbidities they consider. Good luck on your journey!--Lisa

Hi Lisa---great news! I know it's a bit scary but it's wonderful as well; just keep your eye on the prize and you'll be on the loser's bench before you know it. The first few days of the liquid diet aren't easy, but after those first days, you get used to it. (and yes, it's totally worth it!) Best of luck on your pre-op diet and surgery---keep us updated on your progress---cheers, Lisa

Don't be blue--Not everyone understands; that's why you have all of us!. seriously, only people who have walked in your shoes can fully understand the decision you have made. Others, even the ones we love and love us, don't always understand ---they may not express it well, but most of them are just worried about surgery & complications. If you've done your research and you're committed to this process, then just remember you are doing this for yourself and it shouldn't be based on everyone else's opinions--just yours & your doctor's. I know that everyone in my life that was against the idea of surgery has since changed their minds now that they see how my health and my self confidence has changed. I'm truly happier and that shows in my relationships as well. Best of luck on your surgery and your journey; Keep us updated on your progress!--Lisa

Congratulations! It's normal to be scared--I'm sure you'll do fine through surgery and your weight loss. You must be so excited to see what 2015 is going to bring --Here's to good health and weight loss!!--Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

thanks everyone--you all are terrific! Staci--Best of luck on your surgery on 12/11--I'm sure all will go well--keep us updated! I have been walking mostly--I definitely need to up the exercise effort--Lisa

Mimi--Gallbladder surgery wasn't bad. I was in a lot of pain for few days before so I was just happy for that to end. Surgery was laparoscopic. I was able to go back to work 1 week later--- it was pretty similar to the vsg. Lisa

thanks everyone! My worst stall has to be right now. It's been 3 1/2 weeks since I've lost though I haven't been exercising since I had to have my gallbladder out 5 weeks ago. Hopefully now that I've been cleared to start exercising I can get back to weight loss. I have 3 lbs to go to the goal I picked in the beginning but I wouldn't mind another 10-15 from there. other than that, the other stalls I have had only last a week or so. You learn alot of Patience during this journey! thanks again--Lisa

I don't know where there is a list but my suggestion is: phone & charger lip balm and a pillow to keep around your stomach for the way home if you have a long ride home you won't feel like reading etc so leave the ipad etc at home! Congratulations--sounds like your surgery's coming soon----Lisa

It's very manageable. I left the hospital the next morning after surgery and never filled the pain medication. It just felt uncomfortable when you tried to stand up-otherwise no pain. If you have a low pain threshhold, you should do fine with the pain medication. good luck! Lisa

Crystal---you'll be fine---I remember it is a really emotional time. Just act like you normally would, pretend it never happened and all will be well with your parents. You really are in the toughest time right now--it's gets easier after this so enjoy the journey, it's going to be great! Lisa

oh and they'll come around eventually. I think time will resolve it once they see how great you'll be feeling over the next few months! good luck--Lisa

Some people are supportive; others are not. I was first hurt that my mother wasn't supportive but she's come around enough that we can meet in the middle. I do what's best for me and if she doesn't understand that, then I've learned enough in the last few months to let it go. From reading your post, it sounds like your parents show love with food. Maybe they just aren't able to understand why you've made this choice and just can't relate. It doesn't mean that you can't continue to be close--it just means that they continue to live their lives how they want (even if it's not healthy; it's their choice) and you live yours the best way for you and your son. You can't let them push you into unhealthy choices but it also sounds like they aren't open for healthier choices in their lives and unfortunately, you have to accept their decision on that. Good luck-- sounds like you just had surgery and it's an emotional time without dealing with this.Relax, pamper yourself, and try not to take it personally. Sounds like they love you alot or they wouldn't have come in the first place; just sounds like they may not understand all the changes you have made & want to make in the future. Lisa

Don't be so down on yourself. It is what it is..and your surgery is going to change your life. Most likely you won't have sleep apnea soon. and your right, some people don't understand. I found that the people I expected to most supportive weren't and vice versa. I only told those I wanted to before surgery--I got tired of having to defend myself. Now, (10 months after surgery) I tell anyone I want and I don't try to defend myself. I did this for me and if they don't agree, then that's on them. Most importantly, your husband and children support you--that's worth everything. Cheer up--you'll be amazed by your success after the surgery! Lisa

I've taken antenlol for years for the same reason--to stabilize my heartbeat. I had very low blood pressure after my surgery 80/50 -90/60 and even though they took me off all my blood pressure meds,they left me on antenlol--it's not for blood pressure just a beta blocker to control heartbeat. I'm sure it will all work out--I'm sure alot of us have had these last items to Iron out before the big day! good luck on your surgery! Lisa

Good luck! I'm sure all will go well. and don't be nervous--you are making a great decision to change your life for the better. Keep us updated on your progress! Lisa

How exciting! I'm sure you'll get great news and surgery will be here before you know it. Lisa