sleevinIT

Hey!! I hope everyones night is going well so far...let me cut straight to the chase. I am set to be sleeved on december the 14th of 2013.... as far as im concerned i only told a few people..(everyone except my boyfriend of 3yrs) i finally decided to tell him today and he is totally against it!!! I know im doing this for me but i love him also and what if with the weight loss the attraction dies? He iis the man of my dreams thats the last thing i want...it took me a while to get to the point im at now but now that im here now what? I know.u cnt tell me what tto do but if it were u in this situation what would you do? How could u explain to your spouse why your getting the surgery? I felt so uncomfortable trying to explain.it becuase i know one of the main reasons is because ii hate how my body looks i know if i told him that it would turn him off and ill never hear the end of it...so what should i do future sleevers!!!??? Put urself in my shoes how would u handle this??? Thanxx for your input!!

Honestly that really juat changed my mindset on getting this surgery before i wasnt sure but now i know im sure...i will get it and i know that he loves me it just my insecurities im gonna just stop doubting myself......and juat take chances.. i love myself aand for so long iave bbeen doing things for ppl and i think its time to do things for myself...thank you for that word....my surgery date is dec 14 ill defitly let you know how my life goes.. thankxx again

Honestly that really juat changed my mindset on getting this surgery before i wasnt sure but now i know im sure...i will get it and i know that he loves me it just my insecurities im gonna just stop doubting myself......and juat take chances.. i love myself aand for so long iave bbeen doing things for ppl and i think its time to do things for myself...thank you for that word....my surgery date is dec 14 ill defitly let you know how my life goes.. thankxx again

Good luck!!!! Let us know how it goes

Good luck!!!! Let us know how it goes

How tall were u?

How tall where u?

Good luck girly!! Mines is right around the corner to..i start dec 1 nd im sleeved the 14th

Good luck

In brooklyn New York University Langone Medical Center (nyu)

In brooklyn nyu

Has anyone on here expierenced constipation with your pre-op diets?? If so what did u do or what did your doc prescribe for the change? Also i see alot of people saying the pre-op diet is so hard....its scaring the crap outta me because i start dec1st does anyone have any food techniques that kept that full or atleast satisfied????? Please help!

I need to go shopping...soon my pre op diet starts dec1st

Ouch is right....I feel like shes getting to comfy with me....

They couldnt fjnd my vein so i got stuck like 7 times even after all of that they couldnt find it so i had to reschedual n go home [ATTACH]37417[/ATTACH]

Sure ill send u private message

Hey guys im set to be sleeved dec14...i have no buddies yet:-( but anyway i wanted to know after the surgery when did your body begin to stall?? Were u able to control the weight loss?because my start weight is 250 and i dont want to be no less than 150 maybe 145 but after that i feel like imma look sick..so please HELP!! If you've had issues with the weight you were loosing and you found a trick to keep your weight at one spot please share....thanxxx ~LOVE ABBY

You are right when i told him he was kinda sorta shocked by it but he kinda knew i wasnt happy with my body he just thinks tht there has to be other ways..

Lol girl i feel you i decided to have a talk with him...about it bcuz everytime he brings it up i shut down....but i said he deserves to know so i will sit him down and explain to him y i need this procedure and i knows that he loves me enough to understand...maybe he is scared....insecure....who knows but i do know hell understand

Lol thanks girl i reallty hope so

Oh ok well good luck mama... keep your fellow sleevers posted.

Thank you....and lol @ making you laugh....but reading that was kind of reassuring....im thick now but i still wanna be kinda sorta thick after this journey just 100 times healthier!!

Thank you for piece of info....how tall are you though btw bcuz im 5'0 and at 130 for me i think that will be a drastic change.. were u scared? And also how did u deal with the change?

Thank u

Thank you..you are making perfect sense....are you sleeved yet?