thank you all!!!!
OregonHolly, men all around the world like women to be thin but when the time comes they all like a few more pounds (you know when!:embarassed:)...
my ex fianci was 190kgs and when i started to lose weight he thought that i would cheat on him easily so we had a huge fight and finally broke up. when i was fat he was jealous but always felt secure and he believed that he wasn't in danger of loosing me because i was fat!
i know believe that the only think that matters is at first to be healthy because obesity is a very bad illness and then to get along with yourself...