Hello all my name is Liz. I'm 42 years old married with no children. I'm actually just considering the surgery due to all of the health issues I've been facing. To be honest I'm so scared of the thought of having surgery. I joined this site in hopes to get feedback on others experiences, fears, doubts before and after their surgeries. I have the seminar tomorrow. I want and really need a support system of people who truly understand what a difficult decision I will be making. Not all of my family likes or agrees with the fact that I'm considering surgery but I don't know what else to do to save my life. I really commend all of you on your courage. Peace and blessings.