AmberW1023

Hello. I'm soo sorry your going threw this. I can completely relate to your kids. I was one of those that knew my father was cheating on my mom when I was 13. My brothers and I never told my mom cuz we didn't want to hurt her so we turn to each other an we started fighting a lot. She divorced my dad when I was 22 but seperated from him when I was 19. I'm sorry but the excuse to stay with him for the kids is a hard one. My mom now regrets staying with him that long because if she would have left him sooner my brothers wouldn't be following in my dads footsteps. They did try the counseling thing and my dad just plain refused because in his eyes he didn't do anything wrong. My best advice to you is to talk with your kids. They are old enough to understand. Get their input. When my mom asked us. We all were very honest with her. We felt that she deserved better. And she didn't need him. You already know you can't trust him. So that alone is a big issues and he wants forget the whole thing because he wants to act like it never happen. But listen to your heart no advice we can give you is the best. You truly already know what u need to do

Glad they r finding the problem and fixing the issue. Just take it one day at a time. It is different for everyone. So the best advice I can give u is take it slow. And I hope u feel better soon

Well my husband had his surgery Oct 11th (Friday) and it's now Sunday (Oct 13th). And he is home. He has had really no pain, or nausea. But lots of gas. He is on the clear liquid but it's not filling him up. He still feels hungry. Anyone else experience this and if so what do u suggests

My husband is having his on the 11th and he has been on the pre-op diet since the 26th of sept. It has been a struggle for him because he can only have those certain things and we have 3 small children so I still have to make regular meals for them. So far he has lost 12 lbs I'm very proud of him. He has cheated twice on what he was allowed to have but has stayed under the 800 calorie limit they have given him. He is having his in Detroit, MI

My husband is having surgery oct 11th and I'm concern with how to make it easy for him but not make myself and our 3 children have to stop eating the usual stuff just because he can't have it. Any suggestion on how to help him without making our lives and his miserable Thanks