What we used to call "normal" is what got us in this situation. You will feel MUCH BETTER, I promise. Once you become accustomed to the band, it's GREAT! I am over one year out, and I am so glad that I did this. I have lost 90 pounds so far, and am no longer hyper-tensive, and have been able to come off meds!!! Hang in there....your new normal is on the way!