HI, I know there is alot to do to prepare but it is all for a good reason. Try not to get annoyed, not healthy. Think of it as a jouney. After reading your information,I got to thinking that I should write a journal myself. I we;nt for the pre oip appointment today, a littloe tired tonight , just took a little longer than I thought it would. Just have to learn to be patient. Look forward to hear from you soon.