Harwood

I was alway really close to my mother in law and sister in law. I think the world of them. I would do anything for them. Both of them are size 16. That's what I was before surgery . Since I had surgery they make mean comments or say I look sick. They even say I look like a stick when I am walking off. I can't say anything about my weight my husband was told it hurts people's feelings when I do. That it hurts them. I can remember when they both have been way smaller then me and I never changed or acted different to them. I can remember having to seat there and listen to every calorie she had ate that day. I didn't say a word. I didn't stop going around them. I didn't stop texting them. Now today my husband took me shopping and I can wear A SIZE 8!!!!!! I can't say anything because its not right... It's hard to feel good about yourself and be happy . If everyone around you thinking mean stuff because I am thin now. I didn't walk in saying stuff about my weight but people that has not seen me since I had it go on and on about it to me. I still love them like crazy and just want stuff back the way it was. I know I can't change them. I just can't talk to anyone else so I turned to here. I am still my goofy,acting stupid self. I don't dress like a hooker since I am thin. Still a jean and t-shirt girl. Just don't understand how someone that says they love you so much can turn on you that fast. I had surgery Dec16 2012 weighted 246 and now Sept 2 2013 I weight 148. My before and after pic. Thank you for listening to me cry... ????

Thanks ... I will get over it. I guess I just don't have the heart to treat people like that and it blows me away when I get treated like that. I am already moving on and trying to forget it. Thanks for taking time to post.

I always use the orange one. Think Walmart brand is called orange sunrise. It's my fav.... Surgery- Dec16 2012 weighted 246 now 9-2-2013 weight is 148.

I have dropped 81 lbs since Dec16th 2012 day of my surgery. Went and seen the doc the other day and I just have to drop 14 lbs more for my goal weight. I have never as far as I can think back weighted 164 lbs. I can't wait to hit my 150.

The July pic is at my little girls 5 th birthday party. Took the other pic in late June 81 lbs lighter!!!!

I had surgery on Dec.16th 2012.. My first fight with kidney stones was in Jan 9th. It was the worse pain ever in my life.. Then Mar 12 th they hit me again. My husband had to carry me into the hospital the pain was so bad. I'm peeing pure blood and the doctors saying that's not good. Went to a kidney doctor today and they want me to come back Wednesday for another cat scan. I have people telling me this happens after gastric by pass surgery. One friend says she knows a lady that had gastric by pass 10 years ago and has trouble with her kidneys since she had surgery. I'm just wanting to see if anyone is having any kind of kidney troubles to . I called the surgery doc and they told me if you don't drink enough water your kidneys will start throwing stones. Just looking to see what I can find out.. Thank you everyone ????????????

Thank u. I had a UTI on top of the the first round of stones. I'm having trouble now with the meds. Seems that I'm allergic now. My face broke out in a red rash with little blisters on It.. Same meds I took after the surgery now I can't take them. I have people telling me I should have not done the surgery. I was 240 day of surgery and down to 190 now. But I'm tall and carried my weight well. I would do it all over again to feel this way . Happy with myself!!!!! Thank u for answering me.

Not eating much of anything today.. I'm having trouble eating anything today. I have had just a few bites of food today. Maybe be better tomorrow... ????

I had surgery Dec. 16th 2012 .. I'm 196 now !!!!!! Was 240 day of surgery...

Day of surgery I was 240 now I'm 197.. I was just wanting to see if people that had surgery around the same time have lost that much .. I don't know if I'm on track or I need to step up what doing...I worry because I can't drink the protein drinks. Since I had surgery I hate everything sweet and them drinks taste like pure sugar and make me sick. I try to eat a lot of protein in my foods but can only eat a few bites and I'm full... Tks ????

It's been 11 weeks since I had surgery. Everything makes me sick. The smallest things turn my stomach now. I hope this passes to...

I had surgery on Dec16th . Looking for a support group that is about the same time out as me.

I had surgery on Dec16th . Looking for a support group that is about the same time out as me. I

I had surgery on Dec16th . Looking for a support group that is about the same time out as me. I

I had my surgery on Dec 16th. I'm looking to talk to some people that are dealing with the same stuff I am.. I was 240 day of surgery now I'm 198. I really think I done the right thing and I'm loving the smaller me!!! Can't wait to meet some new friends...