penny

I live in Shenandoah county va and im terrible with directions im close to warren co n Frederick co if that tell u anything

Im near Winchester va and im also getting more n more nervous and scared of everything.

Hi I Am also from va my surgery date is march 11 and I am also nervous about all the changes and if ill be able to handle it all. Getting excited and scared as well.

Three weeks from today is my surgery day starting to get even more nervous. Next week have to start pre surgery diet..

I had my gallbladder out years ago n had alotbof pain from the anesthesia. I assume thats the gas pain you mean and it is awful.

That makes me feel better to hear. Im just scared is all. I have friends that I haven't even told because they have the attitude just push yourself away from the table. Or that this is the easy way out. And thats surely far from true..

My date is march 11 and I have been worried to death ... but thats me im a worrier always. I have been getting heavier ever since the birth of my first child who is an adult now. Have try lots of diets to lose maybe 20 lbs to only turn around and regain that plus. As a teen I was thin as a rail and now to take a shower walk a few steps do almost anything I am so miserable. My husband is very worried about me and would rather I not go this route but I feel that I have to or I will end up with every obesity related disease that my family has had and I dont want that. Im still young enough to be enjoying life and now I am not because I dont feel like it. Thanks for telling me how you are doing it helps me feel better about this. Sounds like you are doing great .. keep me posted

Tell me how do you feel and how things went I would love to hear anything im worried about all of it.

Good luck on surgery... I am also in near same weight category as you I am 205 at 5 foot and I would love for you to keep me posted how things go for you and your progress.. my surgery is scheduled for march 11. I would have sent private message but cant get my phone to let me or I am just not as smart as my phone .. lol

When did you have surgery?

Yea my dr wont work on smokers I was so thankful I didnt have to worry about that. I only have to have a limited diet for two weeks before surgery.

So you have already had a salad and your surgery was feb 8??? If thats what you meant then maybe it wont b so bad as I thought it was going to be. I realize every person is different tho.

I haven't had my surgery yet im scheduled for march 11 and im scared and worried about everything under the sun..

That is great I hope things will go smoothly for me as well. I realize things must change or ill never reach my goal and stay there. I am just one that worries about everything. Sounds like you are doing so great and that makes me feel better about everything. I really just dont know anyone close to me to ask questions or get advice about it so this is helpful thank you. My family is only ones who know im about to do this because some of my friends seems to think the surgery would be taking easy way out and I know thats not the truth so I feel better not getting that negative input.

Thanks you thats good advice. I am just so worried I will have complications and also I worry I will never be able to eat some of the foods I love so much and I dont really mean the junk foods I mean foods like onions n spicy foods. I am a meat eater and would hate thinkn I can never have steak or hamburger again. Like I said I am just worried about everything. And to top things off my husband is very worried and he supports me but only because this is what I want so badly and im afraid things wont go well and cause relationship problems. Has anyone else had the same fears?

Can anyone tell me what to expect after surgery like c what ill be able to eat and when im worried about everything.. such as complications being sick ect.