So I'm 5'7 an 310 lbs iv wanted this for a long time an I finally have made a step towards it by making a apt with a surgeon my down fall is my family does not support my decision my grandmother says "do you want to leave your daughter with out a mother " she's afraid that ill die during surgery because 10 years ago her friend did but he had other issues but they blame it on surgery an she really scares me an I feel like I'm disappointing her an it breaks my heart but I truly want this for myself an for my daughter so I can have a long healthy life with her I'm so torn :/