knjl0301

Congrats. You look like a new man

Hey everyone, I am new to this site but, I really like it already.I am almost 16 months post opt and within pounds of my goal. I really feel great about myself and how far I have come. With that said, I must be honest....... I feel sexier and could really use some attention to feel vindicated. Its like its not real if no one seems to notice. When I say that I mean men....Of course people in my life have noticed and lots of things have changed.... all except this. Men NEVER flirt or come on to me Its sad. I know that I must make myself feel good and not depend on outsiders to make me feel valued/good/better/whole that's my job but, it would still be great to get noticed too. Does anyone else feel this way? Have others noticed more attention from men? Do you seek it out? What can I do to change this? Can't wait to hear from you all

I want to get my breast done as well. I am getting a tummy tuck on Dec 18th and I would have done my breast at the same time but, I cant afford it. I have to do one at a time. The tummy is the biggest problem so I will start there. I have lost a lot of my breast due to weight loss. I was a over full double d before and now I am a deflated c cup.... ;/ its happens...

I am 28 and 16 months post opt. I am having a tummy tuck on Dec 18th. I am really excited and nervous. I know you want to have your tummy tuck done right away...I can relate but, you may want to wait til after children. If not, no worries just know that the results will go away and in order to have a flat belly again you will need to have another tummy tuck. Its totally up to you. If you know it will be many years before children and you are willing to redo it if needed the go for it and make yourself feel better. Best of luck

Thanks everyone...That is what I will do....Smile more and hope that people feel that I am approachable. It will feel great when I get some outside confirmation that things really have changed as much as I thought...

Hi I am new today as well. You have done so much already(150 pounds lost WOW), you can reach your goals. Joining a site like this can be great support and a way to keep yourself in step with your goals. Good luck