douchewafflebear

there are some wonderful people here... and just like high school - some that want to bring you down - find the cool people and hang with them... the others are at burger king or taco bell seeing how much they can “get away with”.

you must not have been privy to the what are you eating tonight thread where the brilliant ideas of whoppers and fries and pizza and wings are there for the non-judging. check it out - it’s brilliant.

I’m pre-op and I can tell you the most successful people are the ones that log - it’s not about obsessing - it’s about being accountable -- years ago we didn’t have so many options for keeping us accountable - think of it this way - if or when your a few months out - you can say look at how successful I was when i did this or that verses saying i have no idea what i’m doing wrong - someone help me... by the way of a confession - i had a six month pre-op diet and I did better and was more disciplined when my dietician read my food journals. now if i want to get ideas on how to eat like total crap - there’s a few people on here post op - i just have what their having and voila - burgers and fries and wings and pizza - that’s how I get and maintain a 350lb body for sure.

meow meow - don’t judge me.

Judgy Wudgy was a bear... sadly Judgy Wudgy had no hair. Judgy Wudgy wasn’t so judgie - or soon to be pudgy - cause Judgy Wudgy gave up KFC/McDonalds/Taco Bell/In and Out Burger/Wings/Chips/Soda/Pizza/Little Caesars & anything Judgy ever ate to get her the RNY surgery. Judgy found RNY Talk as a means to share her success stories and not to desensitize herself and others about the % of folks who regain their weight loss because they couldn’t give up the things that got Judgy to where she is right now. Judgy is pre-op and probably needs to find another source of support but comes back to RNY for the FREE ENTERTAINMENT it provides. The end. And the moral of the story - if you judge the person you think is judging - you too are judging. POOF - what a concept.

I support you and what you wrote there - there are no accidents - what there are is bullies who think they can go around calling people “judgie” and say anything they want. Ultimately the childish high school girl thing continues - I applaud your honesty and am convinced there are people who aren’t mature enough to understand a post that is merely against what they believe and take it so personal they need to attack you - you didn’t need to apologize to anyone. carry on - cat fight over. meow meow judgie judge judge meow meow

I support you and what you wrote here - there are no accidents - what there are is bullies who think they can go around calling people “judgie” and say anything they want. Ultimately the childish high school girl thing continues - I applaud your honesty and am convinced there are people who aren’t mature enough to understand a post that is merely against what they believe and take it so personal they need to attack you - you didn’t need to apologize to anyone. carry on - cat fight over. meow meow judgie judge judge meow meow

That woman was wrong

Then just have bread and some peanut butter - same thing

my pulmonolgist recommended 25m of benedryl - my pharmacist said i could go to 50 that being said - I effing HATE my cpap and am only doing it because i have to - yet to find the euphoric sleep others explain -

no surprises - and thank you for taking the time...

Get a room you two

I got rid of 5 HUGE hefty bags of plus sized clothing from very high end stores a few weeks back I gave them to a womens shelter - and it felt so right -- someone will re-purpose them - go on a job interview and get that awesome job - or feel better about herself - I’m only pre-op and I was starting the process of letting go of this plus sized me and working on the new me - I applaud all of you and your healing and healthy new lifestyle.

I remember being told that as an Atkins diet person I had that possible problem... That being said my teeth have been extremely bad in the past 10 yrs but it could be my comorbidities

Google gastric bypass and tooth loss - its documented that there is indeed a connection.

and they don’t have a surgery for that...those first months are the time to really REPROGRAM myself to all the things I NEED TO DO to be healthy for the rest of my life.

Is it true that oil and grease doesn’t sink past the skin? I am trying to find validation on the internet to confirm that i can eat fried chicken.

http://shine.yahoo.com/healthy-living/losing-180-pounds-really-does-body-8212-160-163900419.html My self worth is not about what size I wear - never has been - never will be.

I am not a hairstylist or pretend to be one - I am however a girl who did her hair allot - with and without gentle stuff - and KNOW that I do as little right now as possible to make sure the hair I do have is in the healthiest shape possible - i’ve had hair loss from highlights and without highlights - everyone is different and comes with different knowlege - shit - some people are eating big macs and I can’t for the life of me find that on any list - so do what you think is best for you. IMHO.

IMHO I wish I had you as my tough love support mechanism LONG ago - I didn’t get to the point of surgery without letting myself say oh just one more of this or that is ok - as a matter of fact - I’ve SELF SABOTAGED each and every single 25-50-75lbs I’ve lost with just one trip to taco bell which turns into weeks or months - In the same regard -- the buck stops here - it’s ME - I have to do this for me - by myself -- I look to good examples here and ideas - which certainly doesn’t include ways to trick the system - tricking the system or finding the way around the system is HOW I GOT TO THIS SIZE... I have every co-morbidity in the book - and this is the tool that is going to get me to healthy and fit - I could give a crap if that’s a size 2 or a size 10 or a size 16 - my body and mind will tell me when I reach that sweet spot. My heart is in the right place - I hope anyone who is judging me judging you judging the judge or judging the judging judge judge - it’s not about judging - it’s about a personal decision that’s so intimate I don’t even use my real name here - I know - my name is not really shasta or daisy...don’t judge me. IMHO.

because they are mean and don’t want you to look or feel your best. no, because your hair is like your nails and what you do on the inside now takes a little while to grow out - in a few weeks your hair will be vulnerable and you increase that vulnerability by doing coloring etc which can be harsh... just relax and enjoy the process - you have a lifetime (probably LONGER now too) to get pretty. xoxo said with tough love.

Took left over pork tenderloin and chopped it up - onions peppers and thru in my fat free oil free scan pan to caramelize - once reheated and yummy added some prepared healthy Rago and voila - re purposed some tenderloin

When hr approved the time it was tentative and requires a return to work note - don't sweat the small stuff - your Dr simply won't release you yet... It's very common - Fmla is, in your case, for the initial "procedure" - if you were now having something else done not related then you'd be in violation but honestly in my professional opinion - your good on this - lemme know what happens - will be thinking about you

Maybe you can use it as a base in something... Last night I took some pork tenderloin added some onions peppers and red sauce and it tasted like caittori (I kant spel)

I can't wait until... I can walk the path I live adjacent to (5.5 miles) I jump up when the kiddos ask to go for a walk It's my idea to walk or bike ride I can bike to my gym and back (2.5 miles) I can do a 5k