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Kat - it was incredibly disrespectful and insensitive of you to post in this thread. What's the matter? Can't shine bright enough in the threads where everyone else is doing well too??? Seems a bit desperate to me. The decision to get the band was a huge one and I researched it as well as anyone and it has sucked from day one. Its hard enough without people like you adding their two cents. Your trying to be a supportive bandster feels like a back-handed compliment.

I always responded to anyone that expressed an interest. I just think its an nice thing to do. Even if you say that you are taking a break or that you've met someone and you'd like to see where it goes. I also do not think that its inappropriate to say that you just don't feel a connection and with them good luck. I would never be rude. Dating is tough enough and on-line dating even more so and I don't want to make it worse. I always appreciated a response so that I knew what to do - close out, wait, etc... Hope this helps and good luck!

Also, you may want to try to eat some salmon for dinner a couple of nights. It seems to be extremely high in protein. Again, just a suggestion :cursing:

Have you tried Carnation Instant Breakfast made with skim milk instead of water? It sounds like you'd have to sip it but if you could drink two of them before evening you could get 15-20 grams before evening. Just a suggestion... I'm going for my second fill today and I'll be right at the same place as you. I'm wondering if I'll have the same problem? How did your first fill go? Did you have restriction? Good luck!

What do you mean "...that you can take safely with the band..."? I asked my surgeon if there were any meds that I should avoid and she said "no". What did you hear? P.s. I hope you feel better :scared2:

Thank you Fanny! Your comments are much appreciated! :tongue:

I was banded on 12/28 and I'm not even going to post my, "did really well with weight loss pre-op and two weeks post-op but now am fluctuating with gaining and losing the same three lbs." story because it seems that many of us have the same story. I'm so so so glad to hear this. I feel like I'm losing my mind. I am scheduled for a fill on 1/31 and I'm praying for restriction. I'm not totally dependent on that but come on, that was the point of the procedure - a little assist. Right? Thank you so much for everyone who has posted. It has been so very helpful! Hang in there everone :girl_hug:

I was full liquids for the first week, mushy foods for the second week and was back to mostly solids by the end of the third week. I didn't eat any red meat or bread but my surgery date was 12/28 and for the past week I've been able to eat anything and pretty much as much as I want. Any time I eat less its because of a decision to do so, not because of any restriction! Very frustrating.

I was finally banded yesterday in St. Louis. It went amazingly well. A little stiff at incision area and some pains from gas but its tolerable. Went to the grocery store on the way home to get a script filled and took a short nap this afternoon but that was it. Haven't needed any pain medicine yet which is amazing to me. No problems thus far with nausea, hunger or keeping anything down. I'm so very thankful for how things have gone thus far. Several people have said that day two and three are worse. I hope not. Thanks to all who have posted. Its been so helpful reading all of your posts. Good luck to all! Samantha

Thought I'd bite the bullet and join the brave and post my before pic. Thanks to all those who went before me :clap2:

My date is 12/28 so its coming up. The two week liquid diet pre-op is tough to say the least. I hate the taste of the drinks that I have and that's most of the problem. No room to complain - its all relative! Just anxious to get this going. Thank you so much to everyone that has posted. It has been so incredibly helpful! Best of luck to everyone Samantha

Destiny 79, <p>I'm glad you posted your before pic. I think you'll be glad you did. The pic is just one thing we see. The pic is just a pic and can never really capture how fabulous you are (before or after pics!)- the posts do that! I would like to post my before pic but couldn't find the thread. Can you tell me the exact title and I'll search it. Thank you in advance! Samanta</p>