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Before and after surgery date nov. 7 2012..down 110 pounds...ive totally stalled and have gotten comfortable..need advice on this ..I know what to do..just dont do it. .excuses have crept in. Im proud but im not done losing and need my motivation back... [ATTACH]18639[/ATTACH] [ATTACH]18641[/ATTACH] [ATTACH]18640[/ATTACH] [ATTACH]18640[/ATTACH]

I would say 32 ish..but hair style really does make someones age change. .in pic

Im 230..lol..I only wanted to be about 180 170..Nothing perfect. .thank you..i still see the same girl to be honest..sometimes. .

I love you said that. .it made so much sense..altough I still have 60 pounds to go..the why to do it has changed..im still big..but attractive..and happy..I was happy before..but the settling kind of happy...I want to keep going..and you opened my eyes to a new question..thank you so much..really

Thank you all so much..I appreciate your advice..just being back on this site helps me get back into my positive mind frame. .when I first got my surgery I was on everyday...thanks..Tommorow is a new day..

I used a speaking text device on my phone and didn't realize that there's no grammar in my last post it's very hard to read ..I apologize

I do therapy for a living and I think that the basis of therapy is getting a person too finally admit things to themselves sometimes it may seem like you're talking and talking and not getting anywhere but as you talk therapist will look for patterns and questions and you may not see what they're doing right away but sooner or later you'll begin to admit things to yourself that your defenses wouldn't let you before.. Most therapist won't answer questions for you that will work with you to get you to answer the questions for yourself. The same kind of thinking that got us to the wait we were at is the same kind of thinking that the therapist will try to get you to admit to yourself. For me I made a lot of excuses and told myself a lot of lies to get to the place where I was with my weight and it wasn't until I was ready that I saw what was really going on therapists in essence kind of open our eyes just depends on what are ready for most therapist will never tell you exactly what your problem is because if we're not ready to hear it they will never believe it . I would say give it a shot be honest with them and be honest with yourself and find somebody that you can really trust and you don't feel that you're being judged if you feel uncomfortable then it will never work good luck to you

I went to him last November I was skeptical of him out first and I did the same search on this website for people that have you seen before I think that he was an excellent surgeon I had a massive liver and spleen and he was able to do a successful surgery I was back to work within 3 days I have lost a hundred and ten pounds since last November I've kind of had a stall but I think that's my fault he's very straightforward and open and he's going to tell you like it is he has a very good staff and anytime I ever called with any questions they always got right back to me