Please don't you dare feel like a falure!!! 2.7 pounds a week is great and by your own admission more than you have lost in the past. Every person travels this jouney at a pace that is right for thier body. I would not let the doctor be discouraging and if he is any kind of doctor at all he will also see and be glad for your progress. Please, please do not let the demons of the weight which ruled your life prior do this surgery do so again.
You have and will continue to see yourself in a positive light and become the person outside that you have always been on the inside. I am 1 year and 7 months out and although I did not get down to what the charts say I should be it is fine with me and my surgeon. Every person is so individual and I have maintained a healthy weight for over a year now. This is just your old voices in your head talking. Do not let these voices or anyone elses hold you back. All my best Babs