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Dr. Juarez in Phx, at ST. Luke's

It's ok, it's life. My surgery was Aug 19, the pre-op diet was hard first couple days by the end it was ok. I've lost 35+lbs so far, not bad considering everything going on in my life.

Not much, just dealing with so much! Are you excited? Are you on the liquid diet phase? How are you doing?

I am not sure about anyone else but buying my Protein shakes and drinks, Vitamins, supplements and other things, have been kinda expensive. I have been buying samples from bjbariatrics.com, Syntrax nectar, it's 11 packets for $14.95 each packet had 23 grams of protein, 0 carbs, and 0 sugar, I tried almost all the samples and have found a few I like, but basically spending $20 for 11 packets each time, was getting a little bothersome. I searched the web and found another website BariatricChoice.com that carried Syntrax Nectar in the tubs which are about 36 servings per container, and about $36.99. I signed up and got $20 off my first order! So I paid the same amount for a 2.0 lb tub which I was paying for the samples. I did get a referral code to share, basically you get $20 off your first order of $30 or more, and I get $20 for the referral.. kinda a win, win. It's not a scam, or spam. Feel free to check the website out and see for yourself their referral program and discounts they offer. Www.bariatricchoice.com I thought I would share if anyone who wanted to get a discount towards their protein needs. https://www.bariatricchoice.com/rewardsref/index/refer/id/109518/ or you can use my personal referral code: 8432886 Just thought I would share for anyone who lives on a budget too. =)

Got my tub of syntax nectar! It's huge! Glad I got the discount it helped! [ATTACH]18623[/ATTACH]

Ugh..should be *or*

I'm 3 weeks out. I haven't bought a scale. I was always embarrassed, Because of my weight. Even now I have a hard time actually telling anyone my highest weight..which was 386, lost 10lbs, pre-op but right after surgery in the hospital I seemed to gain it all back. I was so depressed, but was told this was typical and normal, not to worry. But of course I did. I struggled in the pre-op liquid diet and I did cheat, but didn't beat myself up and got back on track. I still lost weight though so I was happy. Last Monday I went for my 2 week post-op check and I weighed 358.9. I was shocked, excited and fought back tears. Seriously? 2 weeks and I lost 27.1lbs. I struggle to get all my liquids in and protein, but I drink syntex nectar, I keep buying the sample pack until I finally find ones I really like, so far I've tried the roadside lemonade, I do have to tweek with a crystal light lemonade packet to make it tolerable, I have to do the same with the twisted cherry, I add a packet of crystal light fruit punch, which I really like both of those I use with water, I also like the double stuff cookie, cappuccino, vanilla been torte, chocolate truffle, which I use with skim milk, I still have some other flavors to try before I commit and stop buying samples and actually buy a container or two. In one packet there are 4 servings, each serving has 25 calories, 0 fat, 0 sugar, 0 carbs and 6 grams of protein per serving. I'm.also looking for more protein shakes/drinks with more protein so I can reach my protein goals of 70-90g per day. At my 2 week post-op I was advanced to soft foods, I love low fat skim mozzarella cheese sticks, Low fat cottage cheese and Greek yogurt, because of the protein usually around 12g to 14g depending on brand. I'm freaked out about the carbs and I know I need some and can't avoid them like in the Greek yogurt and other foods, but I need to stop being afraid to eat and only relying on drinking my protein. I'm very conscious of food and my choices so I'm trying, I obsess about food labels and everything that is in it, especially carbs, sugar, and sodium. I do try to get in as much liquid as I can. Mostly crystal light, regular water and sugar free Apple juice. I'm still eating sf jello and sf popsicles occasionally, and low fat sugar free pudding. Tomorrow I'm going to try chicken fajitas I found some great low fat recipes and need to get over my fear of trying to eat real soft food. I'm still scared to buy a scale, but I want to, I want to monitor myself weekly but I'm afraid I'll become obsessive, I know there will be a stall and I don't want to be upset if the scale doesn't move out I don't lose weight. Everything is all so new to me. I just don't know what to do. Anyone else feel this way, or do I have post-op brain, and too much time to think about my new sleeve, and not wanting to mess up my new tool or fall into bad habits again. I just want to reach my goals and be healthy.

I knew my husband was having a hard time with my choice for WLS, in the past when we discussed my having wls he'd be less than enthusiastic and downplay it, basically saying I was all talk and wouldn't do it. But he seemed to come around and was supportive, we had some heated conversations, mostly since he thought I'd leave him once I lost my.weight, which I have no desire to, before I love him, yes he is a big guy but I've always been attracted to men like that. I told him, I love him and only him and would never leave him, he seemed to come around and be ok and we'd be ok again. Towards the end of my requirements and pending approval of my surgery it was harder on him I could tell but he was still supportive, we talked about vacations we'd take, more family pictures, renewing our vows and having a baby of our own Adobe muy weight and PCOS made it hard to conceive, and all the things I was afraid to do because of my weight, I was happy and excited about our new life together But I didn't talk about my Surgery or fears, because I knew his fears were bad too. So my Surgery was August 19, and in the hospital and home he has been pretty good about getting with the kids, but I handle myself and do most things for myself, but getting out of our new bed which is lower to the ground is challenging at times. But the last few days he's been distant, and suddenly last night before bed, he just says he is leaving, because he doesn't want to be left and that he knows I'll leave once I've lost my weight. He then got out of bed and went outside to smoke. I was shocked and devastated, I love him, been in love with him for 8 years, we were just about to file the paperwork for him to formally adopt my children from a previous marriage, and now he says he is leaving since he can't handle being left. My children are involved, they love him deeply and that's their dad and that's my husband, I can't believe I'm not even 2 weeks out and get this dropped on me. He had been asleep all day so I haven't been able to talk to him, I want to go to therapy to try and reassure him and work.through this, I don't want to lose my marriage because he has fears of something I'll never do, or because he's heard other people did that to their spouses once they lost their weight. That's them, not me. I think his so called friends have been telling him this bs and to expect the worst. It's crazy how can people try to destroy a family and put more fear and doubt in a man at a time like this. My husband does have a history of depression, PTSD and bi polor disorder but it's been managed, but I do think he stopped his meds because he wouldn't do this to me otherwise. If I can't get him to see reason or go to therapy there isn't anything I can do. I'm lost and hurt.

Thanks, I think I'm over the initial shock. If he can't be reasoned with, I'm going to be ok. Never needed a relationship to make me. But I also know if I am single, I have my kids so I'll be good, and if it's meant to be, I'll meet someone who loves me for me, and doesn't have insecurities about my decision to get healthier.

Thanks, I'll need it.

thanks Dee.

Yeah my incision is on my left side, if it wasn't for that I'd feel so much better. But I can Finally sleep on my stomach again and it doesn't hurt as much, it's just getting up and out of bed that sucks.

Got home yesterday, while in the hospital walked around and used the restroom by myself, and sat up for awhile. Worst pain is the incision where they pulled the stomach out of, it's on my left side. It's the only real pain I have which sucks. I just wish it didn't hurt so bad. In the hospital I ate pudding, and cream of wheat which I tolerated well. I didn't sleep well in the hospital so when I came home I crashed. Been up walking around, and sitting up.. Got maybe 40g of protein, and 20 or so oz of water, and a few bites of pudding. So I'm trying. I can wait to feel like myself again. But I'm alive ave can't wait to feel better and start losing weight!

I'm alive! In pain. No nausea, occasionally burping up air but that's it. Walked once and went to the bathroom on my own 4x. The incision where he took my stomach out hurts so Damn bad. Hitting the morphine as needed.

Today is the day! Heading to the hospital now. Check in at 11, surgery at 1. I'm.So scared. Prayers needed please! Thanks for all the support.

Went to my primary care Dr and lost 7 lbs so far on my pre-op liquid diet.. hoping to lose at least a total of 10 before my surgery on Monday! Fingers crossed!

I had to do all requirements, not sure what an exercise therapist though..never had to see one. Just the 6 months of weight loss attempt, cardiologist clearance, pulmonary clearance, psychological evaluation, primary care referral letter, nutritionist visit and lastly attended class es the surgeon required. After I completed all this then my paperwork was submitted.

Congratulations!