Thanks everyone for the support. I wanted to wait till i lose the weight just so he would see what he would be missing. Beauty is only skin deep. any way i have another issue, I talked to the doctor and told him that i wasn`t feeling any restriction and he said that maybe i needed another fill but he didn`t understand why it happens after leaving the office. Too make a long story short he told me it is a possibility that i may have a leak. WTF a leak, he said that when i come back in and he draws the fluid and he doesn`t pull out what he had put in its a leak. that means i will have to go all the way to Mexico to get it fix. Friends I am not claiming it but it would be just my luck. if that is the case then this band is not meant for me and i was just meant to be big. Also i wondering if me eating beforegetting fill has anything to do with that. also i was on my monthly.Why would he say i may have a leak why couldn`t he just say maybe i haven`t reached my sweet spot. One more question, does .4 or .6 cc make a difference in your band. He took that out before i left the office b/c i couldn`t swallow. I`m not getting it done under floro. Please tell me this is not the case. If so I am considering removing the band. Please anyone with any feed back is aprecciated.