I hear you loud and clear and truly appreciate your no nonsense approach. I am always amazed at the number of people who equate "support"with enabling continued poor choices. Someone who is truly supportive will kick you in the ass when you need it
It's the "everyone deserves a trophy" (even if they suck) mentality! There are people who want to give everyone a pat on the back and call the rest of us bullies - even though that person is putting their health in jeopardy.