LipstickLady

its not what is said, its HOW its said.

@_Kate_ I respectfully disagree with the exception of personal attacks and name calling.

I can say, "Eating a chicken wing at 5 days out is a horrible idea." and mean it in a sincere, caring, thoughtful way.

Some will take it as I mean it, some will take it as me saying, "OH MY GOD! YOU ARE SUCH A %^*^$& IDIOT!!! WHY DID YOU EVEN HAVE THIS %&^^%$ SURGERY?? YOU ARE GOING TO BE SUCH A FAILURE YOU MORON!!".

You can't read tone on the internet. And I've noticed once one person comes in with their defensive flags flying, it changes the entire tone of the thread, even when that defensive flag was completely unnecessary.

This has been going on for months LL.. maybe its time to look inward rather than assume everyone shouldn't be offended... respectfully disagreed.