TracyK

Here is the e-mail my sister sent me (and cc'd my mom and other siblings). Mind you, I have not done anything to her. Here we go....this is why i have been sad. PS, she is my oldest sister. Tracy, (As you can tell by all I included in on this e-mail, this is an e-mail that all of the family should be involved in. So they will all know the problems that you and I have in being sisters and how I am going to resolve the problem) I originally was going to e-mail you and get you to come by my house one day when you where coming into Mothers house, and to let Macy stay at Mothers…but then I thought…Why waste my time and yours dealing with this. So, now that the holidays are coming up and I want to get a couple of things out in the open between you and me before then. I have thought a lot about this and have come up with the realization that over the years you and I have always had problems. I am really tired of pretending to get along with you and you are probably tired of trying to get along with me also…So I feel that it is time to be real about the whole situation and stop pretending that we like one another. I have thought about how you are my blood, my people and my sister. But that love should come naturally and not forced like I have had to do over the years. I cannot continue to fake it, or pretend to like the person you are and have become. So with all of this said and especially after what happened last year on the Holidays I am done. I am not going to pretend or to try to force myself to love you or try to fake it anymore. The only way that I can see that you and I can be around the same family during the holidays is that you stay on one side of the house and I will stay on the other, I will leave you alone and you also leave me alone and we both can have a family holiday without any confrontations. Other than that there is no other reason for you to mention my name and I will do the same about you.

Cindy-I am brave, so I will just put it out there.... here is my e-mail addy TracyK219@yahoo.com see you on FB!

Cindy-none of us talk about our band on FB. (at least I have never seen anyone talk about it.)

omg...we can now "share this topic" on fb? talk about being able to spread crap around if we so desire....not that I ever would. LOL

damn....i had a HUGE post and accidentally erased it. I missed you girlies (and uno dude) Hope everyone makes it back to our page....it took me forever to find it. Let me sum up what my last post said: Dss and dsd are coming today, we have a girlscout dinner tonight, we are having a family pic made tomorrow. I had alot of other stuff including the e-mail that made me said the other day...remember? Oh yeah, I had the long sorted story for you to read and now it is gone. Oh well, I will tell it again later. How is everyone?

testing testing testing

Cheetos oughtta SUE them women!! LOL That is plain scary!

Good morning everyone~ Macy did not get up last night at all. She has no fever this morning and her throat looks a little better than yesterday. Still has ulcers but her tonsils are not as swollen. She said she feels a little better today. I will keep my fingers crossed that this is the first real healing day. Cindy~if she gets worse again today like yesterday I will for sure bring her back to the dr before the day ends. Suzanne-glad you are posting again. I hope you mend quickly. (((hugs))) Angela-I hope Zacks surgery goes well! I will text ya. I feel your pain about Mike decision to have bypass. I agree with Jenn. I think with his journey, you will jump on the bandwagon. I know of my dh were to do something like that, my eating habits would improve tremendously! Roll with it and just look forward to it just as much as he is. It IS a new start for both of you if you allow it to be Ashley-sorry to hear that you are having computer problems. That is such a pain. Michelle-how are you? Shar & Debbie...please post. We miss y'all. Hope everything is OK. We do not like it when friends go MIA Jenn-I am glad that you have your groove back. This fill is gonna be just what you needed. :thumbup: Everyone~have a fantastic day. What is y'alls plans for the weekend? We are just going to hang around here and get macy well. bye y'all

Whoa...that is really strange!

Macys fever went back up to 102.5 this afternoon and her tonsils have ulcers on them and are swollen. They look to only have 1/4 inch gap. poor baby thinks her throat is gonna close up. Please pray for my girl!

Is he running a fever?

What medication were you on? Had you taken them all 5 years then all the sudden they made you throw up? I take venlafaxine and then at night i take trazadone to sleep. Glad that you posted! Stick around and talk to us. We DO like new people :w00t:

Suzanne-keep us posted on your surgery. (((hugs)))

Debbie...where are you lady? Are you ok?

Macy woke up at 1 AM with 101.5 fever (which is better than it had been before) and I gave her some tylenol and a wash cloth for her head and some cough medicine. This morning at 7 when she woke up, she had no fever... :blushing: YAY!!! Cindy-the dr gave her amoxil and said that after she takes it for 24 hours that her strep will no longer be contagious. I hope that she feels better soon. She has fall fling tomorrow at school and she does not want to miss it. As long as her fever stays gone and she feels up to it, she will get to go. I am praying it works out. I would hate for her to miss it!

I heard from Kat yesterday by text. She said her mom got through her surgery good.

Thanks Suz! I hope she gets well quickly too....I hate seeing my babygirl suffer. And, I feel a sore throat coming on. Congrats on doing so well on liquids. I need to really put myself on a liquid diet for a day or 2. You inspire me.

had to get macy from school and bring her to the doctor. 102.8 fever and strep throat. my poor sweetheart.

I am here guys. Very VERY sad about some family issues. Angela-I will call Kat later and get back to you.

sure is quiet in here..... Took dd to chuck e cheese today when she got out of school. We went yesterday and the line was out the door and they had no empty tables SO...i talked dd into going today after school. She had a ball, of course. Michelle-I am signed up for the coupons :laugh: Ashlet-glad to hear that sales went well! :thumbup: I am kinda blah, so I will just check in with everyone later. Have a great night all. I see you there plain. Speak now or forever hold your peace. Cindy? You OK chica?

thats all I got to say about that....

Suzanne-that is absurd. The woman needs to watch the kid, ya know?! UGH...some people. Ashley-good luck on open house! Hope you rake in lots of moolah Cindy-good morning....i see you there :crying: Jennifer-I am so excited for you. When should you get word of a start date? I hope you do not have to wait long! I drove over to see my mom for her birthday. It was so priceless. She did not think I was coming and I kept it a secret. When I got there, she was taking a nap so I went and got in bed with her and was about 1 foot away from her facing smiling at her and she slowly opened her eyes...focused and when she realized it was me she grabbed hold of me and held me so tight and giggled and squealed. So excited to see me. That was a moment I will never ever forget. Of course her other children that live local to her did not even go see her. Sad sad sad. She has been a great mother to us. I just do not understand them. They will regret it one day...and I will be there to smear it in their faces. The only reason I have not said anything to them yet is because she made me promise not to. She said she does not want them to visit her because I made them feel guilty and they feel like they HAVE to. I understand that. Sure is hard to bite my tongue. Today I promised dd to bring her to play at chuck e cheese. DH is still on nights. Angela-whatg are you doing this weekend? I need to call Kat and ask her what dates would be good for her and we can pick one to go meet her, ok?! How is everyone today? Anybody have anything fun planned? I saw that Toys R Us is opening at 10 PM thanksgiving night. Are you kidding? Ugh....earlier and earlier. Have a great day friends

Everyone~ Lets see...yesterday I took dd to the dentist for a filling. They gave her a valium to take one hour before her appt and she was laid flat out in the living room saying "mom, i feel weird". lol She came through like a trooper. Her dentist is great with kids. I wish he was MY dentist. Then after I took her to school I had a dr appt of my own. Got my meds refilled. Last night dd and I went with the girl scout troop to see Disney on Ice. It was great! I felt like a kid all over again. Today is my moms 71st birthday. Macy and I were supposed to go see her today but yesterday mom said she might have some kind of virus. SO, I will call her shortly to see if she is up for company. If not, we will just hang out here. Today is a fresh start day...sugar detox for a lack of better words. I have had a rough couple of days but I am going to stop the insanity today before I undo all of my hard work. I am not going to get on the scales and see what I have done to myself because that will only depress me. I am just gonna jump back on the bandwagon, dust myself off and follow the rules again. Then maybe 3 or 4 days from now I will get back on the scales. Have a great day friends. Eat right, drink plenty of H2O and park further away from the entrance of wherever you go. :wink5:

Kat-which day would you be free to meet with us?

That chicken casserole sounds YUM