I finally got the courage to start this process and I am beyond excited ; however it seems as if my husband is pretending to care. I believe that he is insecure and feels that if I drop all this weight that I won't want him anymore. He is acting out , example : on the day I began my 3 months prep last week at doctors office, he made my special day about him and how some skinny young girl was hitting on him so much that he had to leave the waiting room and interrupt my testing! I want this surgery more than anything, but he is making it difficult, I just feel alone in this but I will not let his behavior change my goal !