I'm starting to feel a little better, the pain on the left side is getting better. Now you are going to need some help with your kids, it's good that you have your husband there to assist you. My Dr told me for the first 3-4 weeks not to lift nothing over 25 pounds. I have a 3 year old and between my daughter and husband they have helped me out a lot. Don't worry everything will be good. I know your anxious, because I was too. If you have any other questions call me 972-835-0642.