that is a tough situation. maybe you can talk more to him about why he wants you to have one versus the other? i personally had the sleeve done 12/17 and have lost 68 pounds and love it!
Im 20 and had my sleeve Dec 17, 2012.
BEST decision i ever made!
dont worry about skin, ive lost 68 pounds since surgery and a total of 102 since june of 2012 and havent noticed any loose or saggy skin!