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Whatsoever you mean by head hunger? Like your not really hungry it's more of a metal thing like a habit ? If you do snack what do ya snack on ?

So just wanted to share with all you lovely ladies (and gents) my excitement! Im engaged as of tonight! My boyfriend promised me he would propose before my surgery and he did it tonight when I got home from class in the cutest way. Im so blessed and happy AHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! LIFE IS GREAT!!!

My biggest fears about this surgery is that 1. I will lose hair 2. I will not be able to drink milk anymore and I LOVE MILK ITS ALL I DRINK AND WATER 3.That I will have problems pooping afterwards uhg. Those are what Im super nervous about and I think Im going to struggle not drinking with my meals Ive always drank more than eat during a meal so thats gonna take some getting use to . But I guess after I train my brain everything will become second nature to me but I know the first few months will be a huge challenge but SO worth it

I know right I worry about thaT too!! I heard of horror stories where it did and it can be life threatening yikes, just have to baby your stomach the best you can and constantly listen to your body and be aware of any red flags that your body is giving you over it esp. with your family history. More than likely youll be fine my love =) but it is a scary thought for sure!

lol I know right thats why he put a ring on it so when I get lookin sexy every guy would know I was taken THANKS LADIES!!

thank you everybody!!!!!!!!!!!!! and yes he likes me thicker and doesnt want me to lose weight I GOT SO LUCKY hahaha hes unlike any other guy now a days <3

he used about 6 dozen bouquets of flower petal probably 100 candles our songs playing and made a trail from the front door up the stairs and through the house to where he had a big sign giant candles bouquets of roses etc it was so cute too much detail to type lol my ring is so tall and intricate and GIANT i had to change my pants cause i seriously almost pooped them looking at it lmao!!!!!! Pictures dont do it justice thats for sure!!!!

I'm pretty evenly distributed weight wise, I carry most in my midsection and my arms. I'm terrified ill get bat wings and a flabby belly. Does anyone have advice on what to do to try to semi prevent this from happening?

@libbyb .... The pill does help some what. I got on the pill because of my pcos I would have my period twice a month or not even at all and i had HORRRRIBLE headaches like 10/10 now being on the pill they are like 9/10 lol so it only helps a minimal amount for me but all girls are different and react to the pill in different ways. I tried depo shot at first and it was horrible it made me gain weight and have my period/spotting im not even joking for over 3 months straight!!!! its made my periods less heavy and on schedule for once in my life lol but it still made me gain a little bit of weight at first not too much and it didnt help with cysts rupturing or anything uhg but im hopeful this surgery will!!

Does the biotin help with hair? I heard a lot of people lose hair I'm terrified cause I have super log hair and if I lose it I will be devastated !!

Oh girl I own it and work it now being plus size

Thanks for the advice Hun! Ill deff keep it in mind !

No I put less fruit in than I do spinach so I'm fine:).i know right they rock! I'm already noticing a difference in my face and more energized! I hate eating in the morning I force myself Uhg but I have no problem drinking a green smoothie and making it last till lunch just worried about how much ill be able to drink once I get my sleeve done

Oh my lanta you poor thing, must be horrible trying to conceive and having so many complications! Luckily with me I am not trying but want to one day so i cant relate to you in that aspect but I could only imagine Things will get better! We ALL will get better were in this together and Ive heard so many success stories about pcos and one day we will be too!!!!! Counting down the days till surgery! Once you have yours since itll probably before me, keep me updated on your pcos progress

Thanks mrsG! I had no clue, I'm new to the site as of Friday so I'm just learning how to navigate through here but I will for sure take a look into that I will find it very helpful! Thanks for the heads up

Wow girl we can totally relate !!! So glad you got it under control now with birth control.. Except my birth control hasn't made much of a difference..w Hen you getting sleeved!?

I'm a Michigander getting my sleeve in June by doctor kole! Can't freaking wait!!

Yeah I heard the same thing about the lotion deff gonna give it a try! Should I start in weights first and build muscle before doing crazy amounts of cardio ya think?

I have PCOS too and it's made my life hell! This surgery will be a blessing I can't wait!!! Best of luck girly!

Woohoo! Get it girl!

thanks Im glad Im not the only one who has to deal with this crap! llol...Im so hopeful as well that it will help and thank you for that statistic picture above ^^^ it got me really excited reading it! lol

I did the Spanish thing too lmao!!!

Lmao! See and that's why there's a place like this website that's made for US! Your my bariatric sista;) were all in this together:) glad we can share these funny stories and able to relate to others who have been in our shoes! just good to know that after the surgery we will be able to look back on everything and laugh cause it'll be in the past And we will be on the other side of the spectrum for once! Can't wait lol