Sure do wish you two would just kiss and make up! You BOTH have interesting and valid points, you BOTH have knowledge and experiences to share (yes, one of you for 2.5 years, one for a month - so what?). All of us who are new to this experience have so much to learn and yes, we all need to filter the information we read and make it work for us.
From what I read, Chickie is the one who took the discussion to a level that wasn't necessary. The score is BDAGuy 1; Chickie 0.
On to more positive things, like successful, healthy weight loss!
Cheers,
Cheryl, brand-new bandit.