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About asmaclare
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Scuba diving, snorkeling, Zumba
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Physician
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asmaclare started following Losing will power fast, Waiting for ins approval and having second thoughts, Why do I hate myself NOW? and and 6 others
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Karnie reacted to a comment on a blog entry: Girl! You Ain't Gonna Believe This! or How to Explain Your VSG Scars
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Has anyone ordered and received a Fitbit Flex yet?
asmaclare replied to sleeve_sister's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I have and maybe I am being dense but its not very intuitive I was wanting to hear more from people who have actually used them and see why they prefer one over the other. -
Has anyone ordered and received a Fitbit Flex yet?
asmaclare replied to sleeve_sister's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Can anyone tell me the major difference between the zip and the one? -
Has anyone ordered and received a Fitbit Flex yet?
asmaclare replied to sleeve_sister's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Can anyone tell me the major difference between the zip and the one? -
What is the original one?
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What is the advantage of fitbit one over the zip? So far I can see that : 1. tracks sleep 2. altimeter Anything else you can think of? I am trying to figure out which one to get!
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Has anyone ordered and received a Fitbit Flex yet?
asmaclare replied to sleeve_sister's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Does the zip not have an altimeter? -
Waiting for ins approval and having second thoughts
asmaclare replied to faifie's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Loose skin was the last thing I was worried about.. I was afraid of the massive lifestyle change and commitment to this process. As well as more immediate concerns about the surgery itself and possible complications. -
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Why do I hate myself NOW?
asmaclare replied to ewhitt's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I haven't felt that way but I can understand why you would. My surgery was 4/18 and I have lost 33 lbs which makes 79 lbs total since March 2012. Prior to surgery people would mention my weight loss if they hadn't seen me in a long time. Now it feels like everyone is saying something and it really does feel good. I don't think there is one time that I haven't smiled ear to ear when someone says something. I am sure that will sort of peter out in the months to come but it really has helped my self confidence. It's weird, when I look in the mirror with the intent to check myself, I don't really see a difference. But there are times where I'll walk past a window and notice my reflection in passing, I've caught myself just stopping and thinking, "Who is this???" I think we all have body image issues and of course those are more prominent when we are in situations (like in a bathing suit on public display surrounded by skinny folk with cute bodies) but I hope that some day I'll start to feel more normal. Just hang in there. I think things will start to change for you! -
I'm 7 weeks out and I've tolerated everything.
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Has your taste changed?
asmaclare replied to ladylaura's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I am not sure. This is something I've been thinking about. I have noticed that the things I enjoyed a lot before aren't the same now though and I think it really has to do with the not being a me to eat as much as I want. For example.... Before I really liked complex flavors. Like for instance pico de gallo mixed in with a taco or fajita, the taste of curry and rice together, and baked potato topped with sautéed onions and mushrooms. These things I can still eat but I have to try to think about getting the protein in first. I'd I have room then I will for the "sides" and even then I can only have a few bites. I don't think I get to enjoy all the flavors in the combinations that I want because I can't get big enough bites with all the stuff I want to develop the flavor profiles I likes before and enjoyed. I hope that makes sense. Now that I think about it more its kinda depressing I'm 6 weeks out. In addition, coffee doesn't taste as good but I think that's again because I am not drinking it with breakfast. I am still craving coke zero but haven't had it. I don't want to risk that given the guidelines. My sweet tooth is definitely less but I will have a piece of chocolate here and there but I don't get the same omg enjoyment from it anymore. And uh that's all I can think of right now Good luck!! -
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To be sleeved in a month and scared as hell!
asmaclare replied to Natty76's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I was sleeved 4/18. I have a pretty intense job- a resident in medicine so I have long hours and often a 24 hour call. My weight management doctor suggest 4 weeks in case there were any issues. I could have gone back by 2 weeks. I still had low energy but it was managable. I think you should be fine- but what kind of work do you do? I was more nervous and anxious about a month before but once everything started lining in to place I became less nervous the week before. I told myself listen you're doing it and just keep the negative thoughts out. I also stopped coming to the forum the week before. I would see great posts about people's progress which was uplifting and encouraging but every time I saw a post about someone having a hard time- that weighed on me a lot more heavily. The first 5 days was rough for me because I had pain every time I ate or drank something. It wasnt horrible but I was getting concerned like gosh is it always going to be like this? And then literally on day 6 all of that pain was gone. I still had incision and abdominal wall soreness but that was completely gone by 2.5 weeks. Just over 4 weeks out now without any pain. I was on puréed since day 3 and regular since week 3. I've been advancing somewhat slowly but so far so good. I have not vomited at all and have tolerated everything I've had including steak, chicken, veggie burger, salad, soft fruits, eggs. I've lost 24 lbs as of week 4 and more since I think but haven't weighed again. I started at 259 Everyone's experience is different so take what I say with a grain of salt! I have been following many who were sleeved the same month as I have and overall everyone is doing quite well. Only one person that I know of with a major complication - bleeding spleen that had to be removed during procedure but as I understand they are doing well now. Some people have had problems with "things getting stuck", not tolerating certain foods (ie: eggs) or not being able to eat more than a couple oz at a time- which I don't think is abnormal. If I eat 2-3 oz I am usually very comfortable but there have been times I pushed it to 4 oz and while I was very full I haven't gotten that omg I am going to die feeling. I've been lucky I think but there are so many others that are happy with their progress. Don't get me wrong it's not a walk in the park.. It's the learning curve that has been the most difficult for me- weighing food, knowing what hungry, satisfied, and over full feel like. I'm still getting used to not eating and drinking at the same time. I have not had the feeling of omg what did I do? Not have I regretted it yet... So here's hoping that stays the same and I wish you the best of luck. Honestly I would take the week before your surgery and stay off the boards. Unless for some reason you feel a lot better about it when you do read... If youve done your research and not making a hasty decision, then you should know whether is the right choice for you! Just take deep breaths every time you get nervous and remind yourself why you think this is the best thing for you. I also wrote a list of all the things I looked forward to after surgery and the closer I got to goal.. And would look at that when I felt nervous thought it really helped. Okay I am ending my novel now. The very best luck to you! -
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asmaclare replied to OKSleever's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Ross and Khols! -
Can we smoke 6 days after the procedure?
asmaclare replied to komi's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I am not sure where anyone can come off saying that if you are a smoker then the sleeve is not right for you. I don't think it's anyone's right to say that. except for maybe your surgeon because they are taking the risk of doing a surgery on you that _could_ (not will) lead to complications. That being said, if you were able to quit pre-op and have not smoked since surgery.. KEEP IT UP! You can do it! If you're really fighting those urges then I'd go out and get an e-cigarette. Some of kind of expensive but I have seen the throw away ones at gas stations for $10 and it supposedly lasts a whole pack. I'd try to use that for those extreme cravings you're having but don't don't don't go back to the cigs. You really can do it and I think the hardest part for you is already over! Keep it up You're doing awesome. -
Losing will power fast
asmaclare replied to dfdscott's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I can't wait til I can have coffee. I've been drinking tea in the mornings which I would often have pre sleeve but I don't like it as much as I used to. -
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Losing will power fast
asmaclare replied to dfdscott's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Omg I am in love with peanut butter now and it does curb my cravings! I need to be careful with it though because I've found myself going back for more and need to stop myself! It's weird how it also provides just enough sweetness because before it didnt taste like that for me.