First I will say this is my second band, so I have a vast amount of experience in this situation. It is common that as you reach the date of you 1st fill you stomach has adjusted to the band, there is no swelling at the band site. Therefore it is as if you did not have a band at all. You are able to consume more food, with out really trying. Have you noticed that you do not have to chew you food as well? This is a sign that you need more restriction, hince your scheduled 1st fill. As you go on this band journey, noticing you are able to eat more or you are gaing weight is a great sign that you may need a fill. Your band is talking to you. Listen to it. Remember this is a tool. Also, what size band do you have? The 4cc, 8cc, 11 cc... there are so many now. The larger the band size the more adjustments it will take to get you to your sweet spot. I am having to remember this myself. My first band was a 4cc High Resistance band, so I felt some restricition even with out a fill. I have the APL 10cc band that is medium resistance, so I do not notice the restriciton as much. When I went for my first fill I had only lost 11 lbs. This was a disappointment to me. I have lost only 5 more lbs since my fill, and I can eat most anything as long as I eat very slow and small bites. This second time around is going to take longer. The up side of this is the new larger bands with medium restriction are less likley to slip and that is a good thing.
Keep up the good work and don't give up:thumbup: