kathrynb10

I'm not defensive at all and I'm speaking to larger point that this entire forum has lost value because of the know- it-alls who feel the need to attack (not inform) at every post. As a newbie, this is the LAST place I would feel like I could come and find support or voice my fears, apprehensions, failures or successes because the claws come out EVERYWHERE for EVERY topic. I'll be unsubscribing from this entire forum. And maybe you go to a different church than me but I'm not going to apologize because you get so easily offended when that is the reality for many, many of us former church goers. Thank you for proving my point.

This post and the majority of self righteous responses are the exact reason this forum has become a joke. If I wanted catty behavior and snark, I'd go to church.

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Finally had "the talk" about the surgery with my Husband. He didn't bat an eye and was instantly supportive. He said he wanted me to be happy. He is the only one I plan on telling. But it means the world to me that I got the thumbs up from my boo. I'm going to love this man forever.

And I think that's part of it too. I never do anything for just me. There is absolutely nothing private in my life - and I just want this decision, experience to belong to me.

And there is my conundrum. Ithink I'll have no choice but to tell him when I get back. But by then I'll be asking for forgiveness and not permission. But that also feels strange. I don't know - I just don't need to hear all the negativity - I hate that more than anything.

This may seem crazy and I'm not quite sure how it will play out yet but I haven't told a soul - not even my Husband. I'm going in Feb to have it done after a business trip. I just don't want to hear anyone's input. My husband wouldn't like that I'm going to Mexico and I'm not sure how he would feel about the surgery. I just want to do something for myself. I'm not sure what I would say when I came home and I'm wondering if it's possible to say nothing at all. Crazy right? Or not? I don't know -