When I drop my weight I am going to try pole dancing classes I always wanted to do that...and I am 13 & 1/2 mo post op...ove only lost 96lbs n im so upset obviously it is still decent but im afraid thats all i will loose my wedding is 17 & 1/2 months away I need to be at @least 230lbs by then but im at 413 now im feeling really hopeless n i cant yalk to anyone else bcuz no-one understands