Hi, I know how you feel. I know you say that you don't need encouragement. But please allow me this being well over a year post op. There will be times when no matter how well you stick to your diet or how much you exercise you just wont lose. Then when you least expect it the pounds start falling off again. With that said, my surgeon advised me to consume no more than 900 calories a day. So you have to reduce your intake. Again, I know its hard. Also, are you taking your vitamins? Because believe it or not it makes a difference. My starting weight was 542 lbs so I know the exercise thing is a little tricky, but Richard Simmons makes a exercise video. I cant remember what is called, but you do it sitting in a chair. I used it when I first started. There is also a pedal thing like on a bike. Again I cant remember whats is called, but I'm sure you've seen them. Anyway, I sat in a chair and used that, but I also used in to exercise my arms too. Anything to just get your body moving. I hope I've been of some help. Good luck!