All I can say is I am glad your not my sister. I married my husband just a few months after we met, we have been together for 13 years and still going strong.
My first marriage I lost a baby, it was also just a few weeks, but to me, it was a baby from the moment I first was told "you are pregnant". My older sister would ask why I still cried, its wasn't even born, but let me tell you, it was a baby, it had a heart beat, it lived inside me, it was a part of me.
As for the telemarketers, get yourself a telemarketer zapper and caller id and zap them.