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Hi. I'm 44 years old, male, 5'10", 218LBs, with a BMI of 31.3...technically..um...obese. I've peaked at 220 and the weight battle has been there since I was a teen. I've had some great stretches at losing it and keeping it off but here I am again. I have high-blood pressure (on meds) and pre-diabetic. Having a 3yo and a 1yo is currently taking away the time and energy I could use to exercise regularly. Then again, living in NYC, I do walk a lot. Like many on this board, my family history does not help my cause and I know that the weight is likely to be a struggle for the rest of my life. I am tired of fighting and I want to be healthy and alive and active for my kids. Also, by eating less (post-op) my children will see me eating small portions which I think could be a good example for them. Did the info session at NYU and it is likely, given my BMI, almost certain it won't be covered by insurance. The cost would be 24K inclusive of follow-ups and fills. Dr. Fielding or Ren. I have some questions and concerns. Given my BMI of 31.3, which I think is on low end of the spectrum for most, is it too big of a step for me to get banded? Am I crazy for wanting this? Am I just being weak? Also, my life is very food centric...social dinners, meeting the guys for steak, deep interest in food, etc... Emotionally, once banded, will I be able to get over this or will I miss it forever? Finally, I have read on this board many people struggling with post banding complications ranging from swallowing to reflux to not losing weight to regaining weight. I cannot get a true sense how common these are and thus, how likely this it to happen to me. Any specific or general guidance/info you can share would be greatly appreciated. :help: Thanks and congrats to all of you who have taken such a bold and positive step in your lives. :clap2: - OlympusNYC