Elee

Hi Magilla, I have to say that I have my ups and downs. I went to see my doctor in June. My total loss so far, which was a supprise to me was 33 pounds. I actually felt I had not lost and even thought I gained but to my surprise I had lost eight pounds. It was time for a fill but I told my doctor I was about to go to Italy and I wanted to be able to EAT! He started laughing and said he would actually want to do the same thing. So he didn't fill me and I promised to come back in for a fill as soon as I got back. Well, the trip was great but the food wasn't. I was soooo dissapointed. HAHA The food wasn't that great, in fact, I think the Italian food we have right here in the USA is much better. Go figure. I also had a Tour Nazi. I thought I was going to die. We got up early everyday and were off and walking the whole day. We never stopped and OMG all those friggin stairs! I really thought I was going to die! My legs and feet were swollen the whole time I was there and when I got back home It took two days to recover. I stayed in bed with my legs up in the air until my swelling went dowm. Four days after I got home it was time to see the Doctor. I was excited, thinking I had lost lots of weight with all the walking I did. Right? Wrong. The nurse weighed me and the scale said I had gained Nine pounds! UGHHHH! NO WAY! I got so depressed. I then went in to see the doctor and told him how I was sooo surprised and upset about the weight gain. He didn't say much except it was time to get my 2nd fill. Well, here I am on my second week after my second fill and well, some days are good and some are bad. I have been getting stuck much more often which isn't fun but it definitely reminds me to pay attention to what I'm doing when I eat. I have a tendancy to eat fast. Well, now I have slowed down alot. I still have trouble not drinking with my food, though. I know this is whats keeping me from losing the way I should and could. I haven't been going to the nutritionist which is another thing I should be doing. I need to give myself a nice long talking too. I need to remember everything I've been through to this point. Everything from my long, losing fight against obesity to the pain I went through to get this surgery. I am trying to eat how I did when I first got the band. Drinking those shakes really does help me. Hey, we're only human and are trying to change life long bad habits. We can't put ourselves down for slipping here and there. It will just make it harder for us. We just need to start over when we slip up and use this as a lesson. I know I can do this. I know I can. I won't give up. Maybe I'll need another fill but for right now I need to be more careful with what I put in my mouth. Your not alone in your journey! You can do this! WE CAN DO THIS! Elee

Hi Saltlick, I do have a problem not drinking with my meals which is a big NO NO. It's hard to change this habit but I know it has to be done. My doctor told me not to drink a half hour before and after and nothing with meals. The reason they don't want you drinking with meals is because it will defeat the purpose of having ther lap band in the first place. By not drinking, your food stays in the upper small pouch made by the lap band. This in turn gives you a full feeling. By not drinking, the food will stay in this upper pouch longer and you will feel satisfied longer. But there is way around this. You can end up cheating and your weight lose compromised which is happening to me right now. If you drink with your meals you are washing the food down past the band which empties your little pouch. The food is pushed into your lower, larger portion of your stomach. If you do this the whole time your eating you keep emptying your upper pouch. You can end up eating a whole lot more than if you don't drink. It's hard not to drink with meals but it's harder not to see the weight come off. Someone on this forum (Eddie) gave me a great tip. Use a shot glass and fill with a piece of ice and water and wait until you're finished with your meal and drink that water. At least this makes you feel like you're washing down your food. A shot glass is one ounce. I thought this was a great tip! Good luck everyone! Elee

Hey Eddie, Great idea! I will give it a try. Thanks so much! And good luck to you. Shucks are you sure it can't be vodka? Hehe OK, Just kidding!

LOL I promise I won't cancel my next appointment. I'll be a brave girl. Hehe. Thanks Diann!

Hey Pam, I see what you're saying. I just have to get into the right frame of mind. I can't sike myself out. I know I will feel better after I see my doctor. I need to get a fill, thats it. Thanks for your comments also. Esther

Thank you too, LapDancer. You are absolutely right. I know I'll feel better when my appointment's over. Thank gosh I go to my appointments with my best friend. We had surgery together and go to our appointments together. It really does help. Although right now she's going through the same thing as me. We'll have to lean on eachother, that's all.

Hey Wheetsin, I drink iced tea or water with my meals. Why I do it? Two reasons I think. One is that is hard to break the habit. I like to clear my mouth of food and it makes swallowing easier. And my second reason is I get to eat more, which is a bad, bad thing. At least I recognize my wrongs and will try to correct them. And No, I am not restricted at all. So I am in need of a fill. Thanks for your comments. Esther

Thanks for your comment. I WILL do it.

Oh yeah, I forgot to say that she was told to shave only. and she should shave before coming in for treatments. So there is no burning of hair on the surface of her face, no smell.

My daughter is having her face done. She's had one treatment. She said it really didn't hurt that bad. In fact, she didn't even get red. Her Doctor says she'll need around 8 to 9 treatments to take care of it all. My daughter is very fair and has very sensitive skin. I guess the doctor is taking it slow with her. It cost 325.00 for every treatment. She gets hers sideburns and upper lip done. Next she wants her bikini line and lower legs done. Hey, but what about me! I'd love to get my face done too. She comes back with... Ahhh mom, you're old, you don't need it. Can you imagine that? lol I'm not that old. Sheesh. Thanks, Elee

:help: Hi, I'm new to the forum and I feel like a failure. I had my surgery in January and lost 14 pounds in the first 2 weeks. I felt great. Then slowly I lost a total of 21 pounds up until mid March. I have had one fill. At first the fill helped give me a boost but then I fell back into bad habits. Mostly drinking with my meals which I know is a big NO-NO. I know I'm eating alot less than I used too but I don't feel like I'm loosing right now, at all. I'm even afraid I've gained weight. I refuse to weigh myself. I only get weighed at the doctors office. I have felt so bad about cheating and not loosing that I have cancelled three appointment with my Doctor. I keep using different excuses not to go. My next appointment is on the 22nd of May and I will keep it this time. I'm so afraid that my Doctor is going to be angry or dissappointed in me. Or think I'm a failure. This is bothering me so much. I don't know why I feel like this. My Doctor is really a nice and gentle man. Maybe I just don't want to be a dissapointment to him. I know that not having kept my appointments has only slowed down the process of losing. If I had kept my appointments he would have most likely adjusted my band. This in turn would have gotten me back on track. I know all this and I still kept from going back when I should have. Has anyone felt like this? Has anyone done what I've done? I feel terrible and guilty. But hoping for a new start on May 22nd. Thanks for reading and wish me luck, Please. Esther

Hi Helene, I'm new to this forum and was looking for some help. The exact same thing is happening to me. Both me and my best friend had surgery on the same day in January and have lost only 21 pounds. We did really well in the begining and didn't feel hungry at all. Then we started eating more. Well, we started cheating by drinking with our meals which allowed us to eat more. It's really difficult not to drink with your food. I know we have to stop doing this. We've only had one fill and it did help at the begining but then again, we started drinking with our meals. Mind you, I'm definitely not eating as much as I used too. But I could do alot better. I know the lap band is only a tool and I have to do all the work, but it is sooooo hard sometimes. So Helene, you're not alone. Come on guys, we need alittle encouragement and help. Thanks, Elee