Boy's Mom

Good morning, fellow bandsters. When I saw this thread I thought this is what I really need. I know that if I followed all the rules (ok, even SOME of the rules), I would be more successful than I am right now. Today I would like to do the following: 1. Not graze in between meals. 2. Finish taking down and putting away the Xmas decorations (what's the rush, it's only JANUARY 10th!!!!) My kids get home at 3pm, and #2 has to be finished by then. You guys are all great. When I'm feeling down, I spend a little time here, and I can feel my spirits rise. Thank you. Mayra

Isn't it funny - I have absolutely no trouble with rice (in small quantities) which is a good thing I am a Cuban girl and we love our rice and beans. Now on the other hand, the other day I had one of those Star Kist tuna in a pouch, which I chewed to death, ate two bites and pb'd. Go figure. Mayra

I know what you're saying but ... My doctor has a monthly post-ops support group meeting - we meet with a social worker and a nutritionist. Last month the nutritionist said we should be aiming for 800 calories. This sounds almost impossible to me!!!! I said so, and she told me this was during the first 6 months. That's why I feel like the band doesn't work for me since I can't consistently eat like that.

Thanks so much!!! I just posted what I've had this morning (it's only 10:45 am) and I've had 381 calories. NO WONDER. And my mile walked is only 37 calories??? Thanks for your quick reply!! Mayra

I am having so much trouble losing ... I had my surgery on 2/28 and had good initial loss, but even though I'm up to 2.5 cc's, I seem to be stuck and haven't lost any weight in a month. I'm up and down the same 2 lbs. Iam now walking 1 mile 5 times a week (4 times around the high school track, who would have believed this 6 months ago!!). I feel I don't eat a lot, in fact have quite small meals, but I do have the tendency to "pick" throughout the day. A little piece of cheese here, a saltine there. I think I'm probably taking in way more than I tell myself I am. I'm very good at lying to myself. In the past I read about a website that keeps track and tells you how many calories you're taking in, but I searched around and couldn't find it. Could you guys help me out? I need to start losing again or I will lose my mind !!!! Thank you so much!!! Mayra

That is so true! Skinny people don't understand. My Dad has weighed 155 lbs all his adult life and I watch him eat, he serves himself a "normal" portion, eats very slowly and pushes the plate away when he's full. If you ask him "are you full?", his response is "I'm not a gas tank, I don't need to be full". My mother also is small. I don't understand where I came from I must've been switched at birth! I don't know why I overeat, I;ve had a normal life, I'm reasonably happy, I have a great supportive husband, healthy kids, we don't have a bad life, so what is my excuse? I just eat! I just feel like a pig. Even now that I've lost some weight, the band is beginning to give me restriction, almost every day I will do something that I shouldn't do. I'll grab a handful (or ten!) of my kid's sugary Cereal. WHY? I don't even like it that much. I'll pick while I'm cooking instead of waiting. I see some of the numbers posted by some of you, and I feel like this will be another weight loss failure for me and there are no options left. Thanks for listening. Mayra

I too have Blue Cross. My plan booklet said specifically that anything related to weight loss was excluded. However, because of my high BMI (49), diabetes, joint problems and just diagnosed sleep apnea I was approved based on "medical necessity". So don't give up too easily. I was approved within 2 weeks of submission by my MD. My first visit to the surgeon was 11/16, and I had surgery on 2/28!! I am truly grateful to everyone along the way. Mayra

Absolutely yes! I have been a stomach sleeper forever, and I figured I would have to learn a new way to sleep, but I was banded on 2/28 and have no problem whatsoever on my stomach, although it took a few weeks before I did it. My doctor said it was ok. Mayra

Last summer I was at my in-law's house (they live right on a lake, and there's a floating dock that juts into the water), my kids were swimming in the lake so I went on the dock, and as I stepped on it it started to sink and it broke off from the walkway I thought I would die. I had to stand on it (and not move) while my brother in law nailed in the broken piece. I was so humiliated I didn't go down to the Water for the rest of the vacation. (never mind wearing a bathing suit ha). I am hoping for a better experience this trip. Mayra

Corgi, I'm sorry I hate to sound stupid, but what does "stage 5" mean? Thanks! Mayra

Jack - was it ricotta?? On the South Beach diet, you mix ricotta with splenda (or equal, etc) add cinnamon, or some other flavoring, and it makes a low carb sweet treat. Mayra

I was at the deli this afternoon picking up cold cuts for my kids' lunch. While I stood there I knew I just had to have a yodel ... sneak it on the way home so no one would know ... then I read the calorie count (440 for one serving!!!) and I put it down. I told myself why did you bother with the surgery to do this! Now this may not seem like much to some of you, but believe me this is a big deal for me. I would buy those family size boxes of devil dogs and eat the whole thing. So I'd like to pat myself on the back and share it with you guys who will understand!! Thanks! Mayra