slowlylosing?

Hi. I just signed up for this site. I hope I dont offend anyone for signing up, Im not the one having surgery, my husband is. He works long hours, on call, for the railroad. He was excited that I signed up and could gain info and share with him though. He has never had surgery in his entire life, not even tonsilectomy. He is starting on a six month program before the surgery actually is done. I was hoping to gain insight from real people (instead of doctors who havent experienced it themselves or from brochures). Here are some of our questions. Hopefully someone will have time to answer. Thanks in advance How much pain will he realistically expect the first few days? (He wants to do this during a week of vacation time) What (other than broth) did you find helped during the liquid only stage? What foods did you enjoy during the puree stage? (how long did this restriction last for you) Does all of your family know? (he doesnt plan to tell them because they are insensitive individuals who wouldnt understand) If not, how do you act during holiday gatherings if they notice you dont eat as much? When did you begin to notice an increase in energy and the desire to really work out? Did you have any complications from the surgery? (He isnt too awful scared, but having never had surgery it really is a big deal. I am so happy for him though. He is looking forward to having a future with our kids vs sitting on the sidelines)

Thank you all so much for the replies. Hopefully I will get even more. Im sure that he will enjoy getting to read some real experiences from different individuals. I have looked up some of the recommended products and Im making a list. I just want this to go as easy for him as possible. I know it is scary for someone who has never been put to sleep (he even has his wisdom teeth) so the more knowledge going in of what to expect, the better it will be. Im making notes of what to make and will try out some different things before surgery. Thanks "theoldmusicbox" for the tip about thrift stores, I will definitely do that, hadnt even considered the fact that clothes will become baggy and also the tip for what to say to the family! Thanks again everyone, and I hope everyone continues to do so well!